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Questions for Couples: Shopping

How do you feel about shopping?
Do you like to shop for some things more than for others?
Do you like to shop with coupons? Do you have a super cool system for organizing your coupons?
How far are you willing to travel for a 'good deal'?

Do you prefer to shop locally? How close is local?
Is it more important for you to save money, or to support local businesses?
If a nationwide chain has a store in your area, do you consider that a local purchase?
Do you buy a lot of things online? Do you like to buy new things or used things online?
How often do you buy things on Ebay?
How do you feel about online deal sites?
Would you 'like' something on Facebook to save a few bucks? Would you 'like' something for a possibility that you might save money on something in the future?

How do you feel about back to school shopping?
How do you feel about sewing your kids school clothes?
Do you favor or oppose school uniforms?
Do you think a parent or a child should pick the childs school clothes? Who should pay for school clothes?

Would you buy your child school clothes with pictures on them?
Would you buy your children clothes that have words on them?
What about clothes with witty sayings? What about sayings/ phrases that you may not understand?
What about clothes with characters from video games? tv shows? historical figures?

What would you do if you child wanted to wear something that you felt had an inappropriate message?
What if you felt it was not modest enough? What if you thought it was ugly? What about something that you thought might get them teased? A Darth Vader Helmet?






Questions for Couples: Ice Breakers

What song do you find playing in your head the most?
Do you know how to ballroom dance? If so what is your favorite dance? If not what dance would you most like to learn?
Would you rather always have to say everything on your mind, or never speak again? Why?

What is one crazy/ unique thing about you?
Would you rather be an unknown major league baseball player, or a famous professional badminton star?
Why do you think the palm of someone's hand never gets tan?
What is your favorite lunch meat? Debate why it is the best.
What is your favorite day of the week and why?
Would you rather spend the next year repeating the fourth grade (at your current age),
or spend a month in jail for a crime you didn’t commit?

What is your favorite cold cereal? What about hot breakfast?
What is your most embarrassing moment as an elementary aged kid?
What is your favorite rainy day activity?
Have you ever caught a fish? Tell the story.

Would you rather be the sand castle or the wave?
How do you feel about thunder and lightning storms?
Would you rather forget who you are, or who everyone else is?
Would you rather eat a bar of soap, or drink a bottle of dishwashing liquid? Why?
Would you rather publish your journal or make a movie of your most embarrassing moment?

If you were donating blood, are you the kind of person that a) can watch, b) thinks it's cool to watch, or c) has to look away?

Questions for Couples: Jewelry II

Would you rather have a big diamond, or a small one?
Would you rather have a big diamond or an expensive one?
Diamonds are generally rated with four C's: Cut, color, clarity, and Carat. Which of these do you think is the most important?
Do you think cut (as is shape) is more important or less important than cut (as in table height, or skill used in creating the diamonds shape)

How important is a diamonds color to you? Do you know the diamond color scale? What ratings would you use?  How do you feel about diamonds that are different colors; like red or purple?

How important do you think the karat rating of gold is?
Do you prefer 10k gold? 14k? 18k? or 24k?
Do you have any metal allergies?
Are there certain metals that you don't want your jewelry alloyed with?

Do you like to wear necklaces? What kind of necklaces do you prefer?
How do you feel about pearls?  How do you feel about colored pearls? Carved pearls?

Do you ever wear bracelets? Do you have a charm bracelet?
Do you collect charms from the various places that you visit? How much would you spend on a bracelet... or a charm? How do you feel about Livestrong type bracelets? What about other message bracelets?

Do you like to wear rings on your fingers? Do you like to wear a lot of rings?
Do you wear rings on both hands? What criteria do you look for in a ring?
Is the look of a ring or the cost of a ring a more important factor for you?

Questions for Couples: Ice Breakers

What extreme sport have you always wanted to try?
Would you rather wear plaid, paisley, or argyle?
What is your favorite fairy tale?
If you were going to be executed, what would you request as your last meal?

Do you read for fun? If so what is your favorite author? genre?
What was your favorite toy as a child? what about now?

What is the first thing to do when you get home from work?
What is one thing that is impossible for you to go the day without?
Would you rather be a giant hamster or a tiny rhino? Why?
Would you rather go to the beach or to the mountains?

Would you rather know it all, or have it all?
How do you feel about brussel sprouts?
Would you rather die by fire or by drowning why?
What is the farthest place you have been from home? What were you doing there?

Do you still have your tonsils? If not, tell the story of getting them taken out?
If you were an alien sent to earth to abduct someone who would you abduct and why?
Would you rather have a third leg or a third arm?
What is your favorite sport to play? to watch?

Questions for Couples: Communication

Do you prefer to use a person's name or a nickname? How do you feel about short versions of a persons name? How do you feel about nicknames that are not related to a persons actual name? Have you ever considered legally changing your name? To muffin?

Do you like to use pet names (for your significant other) that are based on food? Do you like pet names that are animal related? Are there pet names or nicknames that you would not like to be called? Are there some words or phrases that you would like to be used when a significant other talks about you?  to you?

Will you call your children by their full names? Will you call your children by names that are not on their birth certificate? What do you expect your children to call you? How do you feel about your children calling you by your first name? How do you feel about your children calling other adults by their first names?

Are there words that you don't want your children to say? How will you teach them about these words? Are there words that you can say that your children can not? Will you use different words in public and in private? 
What words do you use when you are frustrated or angry? How do you describe bad days or situations?
Do you use some terms for fecal matter (poop) and avoid others?

Are there words so obscene that you just won’t use them?

Questions for Couples: Ice Breakers

Would you rather be born with an elephant trunk or a giraffe neck?
Do you like pickles? why or why not?
What are your 3 biggest pet peeves?
Would you rather eat a stick of butter or a gallon of ice cream?

Would you rather kiss a jelly fish or step on a crab?
If you were a fish what kind of fish would you be?
Do you untie your shoes when you take them off?
How old is the oldest pair of shoes in your closet?
If you found out you only had two weeks to live, what would you want to do/ cross off your bucket list?

Who was your childhood hero? why?
Would you rather be 3 feet tall or 8 feet tall? why?
If you could max out your credit card at any store, what store would you choose?
Would you rather be missing a finger or have an extra toe?

Would you rather be stranded on an island alone or with someone you absolutely hate?
If you could buy any island in the world, how would you describe your island?
If you were a superhero, what would your super-name be? What would your power be?
What is the one movie that you can quote the most? How much of it can you quote?
Can you quote a lot of movies?
Are you a morning person or a night person? why?
How late is late?

Questions for Couples: Variety

Questions that must be asked prior to marriage (Submitted by a friend):
Will you marry me? (Haha the humor starts early...)
What genetic defects are carried in your family line?
Are you named in the will of any ridiculously wealthy great aunts that might die soon?
Would you consider living in a foreign country? Texas?
How do you feel about spas? Professional massages?
What is your ideal wedding day? honeymoon?
Have you had your pre marital exam?
How do you feel about disneyland? Beaches? Cruises?
How much travel are you hoping to do in your life?
Where do you want to go?
What else is on your "bucket" list?
Do you like camping? Where?
Do you like hiking? Where?
How many pairs of shoes do you have?
Why do you want to get married?
What do you like to read?
What was the last book you read?
What are your career goals?
Are you open to adoption? Are you adopted?
What activities will your kids be required to participate in? Forbidden from? Sleepovers?
What pets will you allow or want?
If you had a million dollars what would you do?
What is your favorite joke? Movie? Tv show?
What are your top ten greatest hits? (from your life?)
Colgate or Crest?

Questions for Couples: Jewelry

How do you feel about jewelry?
Do you like to have a lot of jewelry?
Do you like to wear a lot of jewelry?
Do you like your significant other to wear a lot of jewelry?
Do you like to buy Jewelry for your significant other?
Do you like it when your significant other buys jewelry for you?
Do you have a favorite jeweler?
Do you have a least favorite jeweler?
How do you feel about buying jewelry on the internet? Ebay?

Do you prefer yellow gold or white gold? what about rose gold?
Did you know that the price of gold is at an all time high?
Do you like silver? what about platinum?

Would you buy jewelry made with non-precious metals?
Would you buy fake jewelry? would you wear fake jewelry? often?
Rhinestones?

How do you feel about Jewelry made of titanium?
What about Tungsten? Did you know that tungsten is also called Wolfram and that it's symbol is W? Isn't that AWESOME? How do you feel about mixing non-precious metals with real diamonds?

How do you feel about fake diamonds? What about a ring that has some real diamonds, but gives you the look you want with a big ole' center stone that's not a diamond?
Do you have a favorite imitation diamond?
Do you know your birthstone? Do you like to buy jewelry with your birthstone in it?

Would you pretend that your birthstone was something different, just because you like a different stone better?

Questions for Couples: Driving

Do you own a car? What kind is it?
Does it work? Do you like it?
If you could change one thing about your car, what would it be?

Do you think you are a good driver? Do your friends and family agree with you?
Do you like to drive fast? How fast do you drive?
How close to the Speed Limit do you like to drive?

How do you feel about other people that speed?
How do you feel when others drive too slowly?
Does driving usually make you mad or relax you?

How do you feel about people that talk on their cell phones while they are driving?
What if they are in bumper to bumper traffic? Do you talk on your cell phone while driving? Do you 'text' and drive? How do you feel about people who do?

Have you ever run a red light? Was it late and night... with nobody around? Does that make a difference? Do you run red lights often? What do you think about yellow lights?

Do you follow at a safe distance behind other drivers? How do you measure it? Three seconds? Four seconds? If you said four seconds do you work for the post office?

Do you use your turn signals? Do you use them to change lanes?
Does it make you mad when other people don't use them? Do you ever leave your turn blinker blinking? If the GPS says to 'Turn here' do you listen to it?

Do you ever leave your car running when you have to do something else?
Do you ever leave your lights on when you get out of the car? If your check engine light comes on, do you check it? How long do you wait in between oil changes?
how often do you check your oil?

What kind of gas do you buy?
Have you heard of Hyper-miling (trying to use your gas in crazy efficient ways)?
Is this a practice that you participate in... or perhaps are considering?
Do you like to fill your tank a) only when it's empty b) when you get about halfway to empty c) every time you drive d) wait you mean it doesn't just refill itself?

Questions for Couples: Memories

I attended an activity the other day with a man named Robert Heaton. He gave us a list of questions and told us to answer the ones that we felt were most pertinent to us.
His work sheet is copyrighted, but I have his permission to reprint portions of his worksheets here. Some modifications have been made.

What is something special about yourself that most people don't know?
Where is a special place you have been to or visited?
Tell a little about a person in your life that is a special "kindred spirit."
Tell about a time that you "Shouted for Joy" because of a special feeling or happening.

When was a time that you felt closest to your father?
When was a time that you felt closest to your mother?
When was a time that you felt closest to your brother or sister?
When was a time that you felt closest to a church leader?
When was a time that you felt closest to God?
When was a time that you felt closest to a friend?

Talk about a time that you did a good deed for someone without being found out.
Talk about a time that you felt deep contentment and peace.
Tell of a meaningful spiritual experience that you have had.
Talk about an animal that you were especially close to.
Do you have a special place where you go to be by yourself?

Is there a pleasant sound that you heard recently? sometime in the past? Today?
Is there a pleasant sight that you saw sometime in the past? recently? Today?
talk about a pleasant smell that you've experienced sometime in the past? recently? Today?
talk about a pleasant touch that you've experienced sometime in the past? recently? Today?
talk about a pleasant taste that you've experienced sometime in the past? recently? Today?

Questions for Couples: Entertainment

Would you rather watch a movie in the theater, or at home?
How do you feel about 3D movies? IMAX? Animation? Claymation?

If you go to the theater, do you get popcorn? what about drinks?
Do you have a favorite movie theater candy?
Are you a Redvines or a Twizzlers kind of person? How do you feel about black licorice?

Do you prefer to rent movies or to buy them?
Do you have a favorite movie streaming service?
How do you feel about torrents, or other unauthorized services?
Do you think people should be able to edit the movies they purchase?
Do you think third party vendors should be allowed to edit movies for other people to purchase?

How do you feel about international films?
Do you prefer foreign films that are dubbed? or would you rather watch them with subtitles? Would you rather watch the movie? or the making of the movie/ special features?

How do you feel about second fun movies? Matinees?
Do you like going to the midnight movies?
How do you feel about drive-ins?
How often do you see a movie multiple times in the theater?

How much would you spend on a movie? Do you like to do dinner and a movie? what about a movie and then Dessert?
How much would you spend on the whole evening? Does that include a baby sitter?

Questions for Couples: Exercise

How do you feel about exercise?
How often do you exercise?
Do you ever make new years resolutions about exercise?
What is the longest that you have kept one of these resolutions?
What is the shortest amount of time that you have kept one?

Do you prefer to exercise with a group or by your self?
Do you like to work out at a gym?
Do you prefer exercises that build muscles? How much can you bench?
Do you like exercising by playing sports?

How do you feel about running?
Do you prefer short distance runs or long distance runs?
Is fun-run an oxymoron?
Do you ever run a race even if you know you will lose?
Do you prefer to run alone or do you want your significant other to run with you?

Would you ever run a marathon? half-marathon? Why?
What do you think about work-out videos?
Exercise magazines?

How much time do you spend exercising each day? week? year?
What's your favorite sport?
What's your least favorite sport?

How do you feel about exercising with a video game?
Do you like DDR? Pump it up exceed? or other Dance games?
Have you ever used a Wii for exercise?
What about another video game consoles?

Questions for Couples: Holidays/ Events

When do you put up your Christmas decorations?
When do you take them down?
When is it OK to start listening to/ playing Christmas music?
Can you listen to Christmas music at other times of the year?
What do you do with your Christmas tree when you are done with it?

Do you like Valentines day?
Do you like to give gifts one Valentines day?
What do you think would be an amazing valentines gift?
How do you feel about the valentine colors?
What is your idea of a romantic dinner?

Is the super bowl a holiday in your household?
What's your team?
Do you watch the Superbowl? Does it have to be live?
Are you secretly in it just for the commercials?

How do you feel about March Madness?
Do you like to pick your brackets and then play against family or friends?
If your workplace was doing a tournament would you participate?
Do you bet anything on these games?
Do you watch the games or do you just care about the scores?

Special Edition: Date Ideas - Winter

Dating can be a valuable part of any relationship.
It is not always the easiest part of a relationship, but nevertheless it can be very valuable. Because dating can be useful for people who are not yet in relationships, as well as for people that have long established relationships I have decided to add a bonus section to this blog... Date Ideas
(Ok I was also persuaded by the overwhelming support in the recent survey, the votes were split on how best to add, them, but a strong majority voted in favor of having some date ideas).

Here are some ideas for dates that could happen in the wintertime.

1. Attend a local concert, there are usually a lot of them around this time of year, and with a good selection  in both type and wallet friendly-ness you can probably find one that you'll like.

2. Pick your favorite restaurant and order two bowls of soup... to go, most restaurants will actually give you soup to go, and you won't need a reservation if you're not staying.

3. Take a sleigh ride.

4. Go sledding.

5. Ice skating is a great activity, if you have some place you can do it.

6. Build snow forts, or snow men, or other fun creations.

7. Have a snowball fight... this can be a lot of fun, but can also go south very quickly, may not be right for everyone.

8. Go to the library and read picture books to each other.

9. Visit a freedom wall, and actually read the messages found there.

10. Make pizza together (Pillsbury's 'Rustic French Bread' makes an excellent crust).

11. Take a public transportation 'tour' of the city, who knows the bus driver might even have some interesting tidbits about some of the things you pass every day.

12. Play museum bingo. Make a list of things you might see in a local museum, then arrange a few bingo cards and see who can find their items first.

13. Attend a fireside talk, or a lecture (preferably one that you expect to be really good).

14. Find your favorite neighborhood of Christmas decorations and take some time to enjoy them.

15. Set up a lemonade stand, Ok... so maybe nobody will buy your lemonade, but I can almost guarantee that your date will never forget it.

Questions for Couples: Holidays

What is your favorite holiday? and why is it your favorite?
Are there any holidays that you don't like? What are they? and why?

What is your favorite part of Thanksgiving dinner?
Are there certain foods that you have to have on Thanksgiving?
Do you make any part of your thanksgiving meal?
What's your favorite kind of pie?
Strange, I feel like pie, do you feel like pie?

Do you celebrate Christmas? What day do you celebrate it?
Do you celebrate Hanukkah? Kwanzaa? The Epiphany?

Do you believe in Santa Claus?
What do you call him? Santa Claus? Saint Nicholas? Father Christmas? Kris Kringle? Something else?

What will you teach your children about Santa Claus?
How will you handle it if someone tells them that he doesn't exist?
Do you think a parent should be the one to have this discussion with their children?
Do you think it would be better with one parent or two? At what age do you think this discussion should be held?


When can you start listening to Christmas music?
Can you listen to Christmas music at other times of the year?
When do you get out your Christmas decorations?
When do you take them down?
Do you prefer a real Christmas Tree or a fake tree?
What kind (shape or type) of Christmas tree do you like best?
Do you cut your own Christmas Trees?
How much would you pay for a Christmas tree?
Do you like a flocked tree or one that is more 'natural'?

Questions for Couples (Advanced): Children

Advanced questions are questions that might be important to discuss, but may not be the kind of thing that would work on say, a first date for instance.
A few of these are being reprinted from an earlier posting

How do you feel about children?
Do you want to have children?
Do you know how many children you want to have?
How will you/ did you decide how many you want?
Who will ultimately decide how many children you have?

When would you like to have children?
Do you think you should be married first?
Do you think that there should be a waiting period after you get married?
How far apart would you like to space your kids?
How will you decide when to stop having kids?

What methods would you be willing to use to affect the number of kids you have?
Would you use condoms? Birth control medications? Timing? Abstinence?

Would you consider surgery as a method to control the number of children you have?
Would you be more open to surgery for you or for your spouse?
Are there other ideas that you would pursue to effect the number of kids you have?

Would you be more likely to stop having kids if you had a child born with some handicaps? Would you be more likely to have more?

Would you be interested in raising twins? Triplets? sextuplets? Do you have a history of twins in your family? Would you give them cute rhyming names?

If you had twins would you be interested in having more kids?
If you have a good chance of having twins would you keep going until you got some?
Would you keep having kids in order to get a son/ daughter?
Do you think the number of children you have of each sex is important?
Do you think there is any way to influence what gender your children are?
Would you try to influence the gender of your children if you could?
Are you the kind of person who wants to know what gender your kids are going to have before they are born? Does it make a difference if it is your first child?
Do you want to pick your kids names before they are born, or after you see them?
Would you be willing to genetically engineer/modify/protect your children if you could?

Questions for Couples: Service

Do you like serving other people?
Do you let other people serve you? Are you happy about it?
What if somebody does something for you that you can do yourself?
How would you react if somebody did something for you that you didn't want done?

Would you rake your neighbors leaves for them? Would you do it without them asking?
Do you know your neighbors?
Would you shovel their sidewalks in the winter?
Would you shovel their walks before or after you shoveled your own?
Would it change things if you had a snowblower?
Would you use this as a reason to get a snowblower?
What if you could shovel the sidewalks with a four wheeler?
Would you hire someone to do a job that you could do if you knew they needed the money?
Do you think it is service if you get paid to do it?

What is your favorite service project you've been involved with?
What is your least favorite kind of service?
Is it easier for you to serve people that you do know or people that you don't know?
Are you the kind of person who is more likely to plan a service project, or the kind to help someone else carry out their plans?
Do you like occasional, but large service projects? or small but frequent acts of service?
Do you like service that you can do by yourself? Or do you prefer to work in a group?
Do you like your service to be Anonymous? or do you like to be able to interact with the people you are serving?

Have you ever made food for a funeral? Was it those tasty potatoes?
Do you take food to your neighbors when they have a baby?
Would you offer to tend your neighbors kids? What about your nieces or nephews?

Questions for Couples: Ice Breakers


What is your favorite candy bar?
Do you chew gum? What kind is your favorite?
What is your favorite food, or kind of food?
What is your favorite kind of drink?

How do you like to end a date?
If your date came in for a kiss on the first date, what would you do?What was the best date you have ever been on? Why was it your favorite?
How would you imagine your ideal date?

What's the hardest thing you've ever done?
What was the scariest thing you've ever done?
What is the coolest thing you've ever done?
What makes you angry?
What makes really happy?What is your favorite thing about yourself?
Where were you raised?
What is your favorite childhood memory?


Do you prefer paper or plastic? or do you use those reusable bags?
Do you clean your reusable bags? how often? Would you take bags from one store into a different store? What color do you think looks best on you?Do you dye your hair or is it natural? How often do you dye it?
After a long night would you still get up early an make yourself look good? Would you go to class as you are? Would you skip your first class, but get ready for your next one?

What is your favorite kind of Ice Cream?
Do you have a favorite brand of ice cream?
Do you want to go get some ice cream now?
What is your favorite fruit?
If you had to rank the following fruits how would you rank them and why?
Pineapple, Orange, Apple, Banana, and grape.

How would you feel if your date took you to McDonalds? Would it change things if you knew they were poor? What if you knew they weren't poor? What if they took you to get a happy meal?

Questions for Couples: Education II

Did/ do you like school?
What was your favorite subject? What was your least favorite?
Did you have a favorite teacher? Why were they your favorite?

Did you take music lessons when you were younger? Did you practice?
How do you feel about music lessons? What instruments do you play?
What instruments do you wish you could play?

Have you ever taken band classes? Orchestra? Painting classes? Ceramics? Drama classes?

What class do you think you learned the most from? What class (es) do you think you learned the least from? What were your favorite subjects while you were in school? What were your least favorite subjects? What types of classes did you do well?

Did you ever eat school lunch? How was it? Did you ever pack a lunch? Did you ever eat off-campus? Do you like the idea of schools having vending machines?

Did you take a foreign language in school? Did you learn a foreign language in school? Do you know any ASL? What languages do you know? what languages do you wish you knew?

Have you ever participated in a study-abroad program? Would you let your kids spend a semester in a foreign country? Does the specific country matter? Would you let them spend a year? Do you think service abroad programs are educational? How do you feel about service in a foreign country without a sponsoring organization? How do you feel about Peace Corps?
Would it make your decision easier or harder if they were going with a friend? What if the friend was not their same gender? What if they went with a larger group of people?

Do you think there are subjects that everybody should study? If yes what subjects do you think everybody should learn? Do you think it is better for a person to really excel at one thing, or to have a basic understanding of a lot of things? How involved do you think a child should be in setting their curriculum? Do you think that anyone can learn anything?

Are there books that you think everyone should read? Is "Up from Slavery" one of them? Are there books that you don't think people should read? Did you have/use Encyclopedias when you were growing up? Do you think you will actually own a set of encyclopedias?

Questions for Couples: Ice Breakers

Do you prefer chocolate of flowers? What’s your favorite kind of chocolate? What’s your favorite kind of flower? What’s your favorite color of flower? What’s your least favorite color of flower.

Which parent do you look most like?
What was your childhood dream?
Did you ever have an imaginary friend? what was it? what was it’s name?
If you could have any pet, which one would you choose?

Are you a competitive person? How would you react if you date beat you at something?
do you consider yourself outgoing or shy?
Do you believe that a relationship comes easily or takes work?
Were you a bully when you were younger?
What is the most dangerous thing you have ever done?
Have you ever broken any bones? How?
What is your most embarrassing moment?

What is your favorite jelly bean?
Do you like to pull pranks? what is the best prank you have ever been a part of? If you don’t like pranks, why not?

What color are your eyes? Do you like your eye color?
What is your favorite color?
Do you prefer to use cash or card? How many cards do you have?
How often do you use them?

Have you ever left the state you live in?
Where is your favorite place?
What are your hobbies?
What is the craziest thing you have ever done?

What do you do when you are bored?
Did you have a pet as a child? What was it’s name?

Who is your hero? Why are they your hero?
Who in you life has made an impression on you?
Who is your best friend and why?

Questions for Couples: Education

Do you feel strongly about education?
How much education do you have?
How important do you think formal education is? What about degrees?
Would you get a degree from an unaccredited school? why or why not?

How do you feel about preschool? Did you attend one? do you want your kids to attend one? would you ever try to run one?

Do you have any educational licenses? How important do you think licenses and accreditations are?

Would you ever home school your kids? would you home school other peoples children? How do you feel about educational co-ops, where groups of parents teach different subjects to each others children?

Do you prefer public school or private schools? what about charter schools?
What do you think are the advantages of each? what do you think are their disadvantages?
Are you willing to consider that they may not be what you think that they are?

Would you prefer a church run school? What about a church-like school? Would you attend (or send kids to) a school that was affiliated with a different religion?

How important do you think religious education is?

Would you ever send your kids to a boarding school? an out-of-state boarding school? a youth wilderness program?

Questions for Couples: Whose job is it anyway?

There are a lot of things that need to be done in any household. These questions pertain to some of the things that need to be done, and how you will divide the tasks you may have. With these questions you may want to see whose responsibility (primarily) a task will be. If you want to share a task, how will that be done? What about your kids? What role will they play? And what if your circumstances are not as you plan? How will you handle those situations?

Who gets to mow the lawn? What about edging it? Who will weed the garden? Is the same person responsible for the vegetable garden and the flower garden? do yo want to grow your own vegetables? and flowers?

Who will be in charge of bringing home the bacon? But seriously, there is going to be some bacon right? Who will set the budget? Who will balance the checkbook/ accounts? Who will pay the bills? And if bill pay is automatic, who gets to set that up? Who will buy the insurance? What kinds of insurance will you have? Who will buy the food? Who is in charge of buying clothes?

Who will do the driving? Who will buy the gas? Who will be in charge of automobile purchasing? Maintenance? Who decides when the car needs someone more experienced?

Who will drive the kids to school? How do you feel about buses? Who will take the kids to athletic activities? other activities? music lessons?

Who is in charge of making lunches? What about bread? rolls? cinnamon rolls? Who will cook the other meals?

Who will feed the animals? who will name the animals? wait how many animals did you want again? Who will walk the dog(s)? Who will kill unwanted creatures (i.e.; insects and things)?

Who will feed the baby? in the middle of the night? Who will change the diapers? in the middle of the night? Who will put the baby down to sleep?

Who is in charge of disciplining the children? good cop / bad cop, or all one team? Who will go to parent teacher conferences? The principals office? Who will be responsible for family worship? Family prayer? Who will plan special family outings? Vacations? Date night? Who will get the baby sitter?

Who will buy the toiletries? who will bathe the kids? who will braid their hair? who will pick out ticks? what about lice?

Who will clean the house? Who will clean the bathrooms? Who will scrub the toilets? what about tile and grout? Who replaces the toilet paper?

Who will do the dusting? Who will sweep the floors? who will do the mopping? Vacuuming? Is there a certain order in which you like these to be done?

Who is in charge of home repairs? What about home decor? Who is in charge of picking up the mail? Who will pick the family doctors? who will take people to the doctors?

These questions were collected in I class I was in.

Questions for Couples: Games

Does your family have any gaming traditions?
Do you like to play games?
What types of games do you play? Board games? Video games? Card games?
Large group games? Word games? Role-playing games? Solitaire games?
What is your favorite Solitaire game?

Do you play Computer games? What kind?
Farmville? Halo? Sims? Second Life? Tetris?
Do you have strong feelings about first person Shooter games?
Does your feeling about these games change if you are fighting monsters?
Aliens? Fictional Characters? the undead?

Do you have a video game system? How many do you have?
What kind is it? What do you like to play on it?
How often do you like to play?
Do you expect me to play with you?
Will you let me play with you?

Do you have accessories for your game systems? Which ones do you have?

What games did you play as a child?
Are you addicted to any games? are you sure?
What is your best score on Minesweeper?


Do you play games with face cards? why or why not?
Do you like to play poker? Black Jack? something else?
Do you like to gamble? how good are you at these things?
How often do you play?
How much $$$ will you spend? How much have you won?
Where do you do it?

Do you have any monthly subscriptions to be able to play any games?
Do you have any other monthly subscriptions to services, magazines, or
entertainment? What are they? How attached are you to them?

Questions for Couples: Food... well, Snacks

Would you rather have a snack, or a meal?
How often do you like to have a snack?
What kind of snacks do you like the most?
Do you prefer sweet or salty snacks?
How do you feel about store bought snacks? Homemade snacks? Fast food Snacks?
What about Store bought snacks that you still have to make?
Do you have a favorite brownie mix? Have you tried Lehi Roller Mills brownies?

Do you prefer crinkle cut chips (like Ruffles) or regular potato chips?
Do you like chips with a big bold flavor, or do you like the unadulterated versions?
How do you feel about Sun Chips? Bugles? Funions? Cheetos?
Do you think Crunchy Cheetos are better than the the puffy kind?
What about the balls? Does the brand of a cheesy snack really even matter?
And how do they get all that big cheese flavor into Cheez-its?

Would you ever buy the low fat version of a snack? the baked version? Low sodium? Diet? Artificially sweetened?

How do you feel about Microwave Popcorn? Kettle corn? Carmel Corn?
Do you make the best popcorn in the world? can you prove it? Can I have a sample? I'll be the judge of that.

Do you avoid sugary substances? are you Diabetic?
Do you have a favorite sugary substance? or any that you avoid?
Do you like things sweetened with real sugar? organic sugar? honey? Nutri-sweet?
Corn syrup? Do you have a favorite artificial sweetener?
Or non-artificial sweetener that isn't on the list?
Do you have a favorite kind of honey? Did you know there were different kinds of honey?
Do you prefer creamy honey or the liquid kind? Does it have to come in a bear?
Do you prefer clover honey? Mesquite? or something else?
What about flavored honeys? Would you call your significant other honey?

Would you eat a snack that you didn't like just to impress a date?
Would you try a food that you thought you might not like, because a date wanted you to? what about a spouse? Would you ask a date to try a food that they might not like?

Questions for Couples: Superheros

If you could be any superhero which one would you be?
If you could have one superpower which one would you choose?
Would you rather be a superhero or a super-villain?
Is Batman a Superhero or just a wealthy hero with really cool toys?
Do you need a minute to recover from that last question?
What about James Bond, Is he a super hero? Which Bond is your favorite? You have heard of James bond right? Double-oh seven (007)?

Is it wrong to use your superpowers for your own personal gain?
what about for somebody else's personal gain?
Should superheros have secret identities? Should Superheros be supported by the people? or vice versa?

What's the best way to gain superpowers? a meteor? happenstance?
genetics? genetically engineered chromosomes? chemistry accidents?

If you could pick one superpower for a spouse, what would you pick?
Would you be jealous if your spouse had superpowers and you did not? What if you both had superpowers, but theirs were cooler than yours?
What kind of sidekick would you pick?
What kind of superhero outfit would you pick?
And why do superheros always wear spandex?
How do you feel about spandex?

Would you have like to your own theme music?
Do you already have a theme song?
Do you think superheros should have a secret lair? What kind of lair would you have?

What is your favorite superhero movie?
Do you like superhero movies?
What about animated superhero movies?
Do you read books about superheros?
Graphic novels? Do you collect them?

Is there anything else about superheroes that I should know about you?

Questions for Couples: Romance

Do you like Piña Coladas?
And getting caught in the rain?
Do you really like long walks on the beach? or is that just a cheesy line?
Do you like watching the sunset? Do you ever get up in time to see the sunrise?

What's your favorite kind of flower?
Is it more romantic to get/ give flowers (or gifts) often or for them to be a surprise?
Would you rather take a walk on the beach or through the mountains?
How do you feel about waterfalls? What's your favorite kind?

Do you like to sit outside and look at the stars?
Do you know all 88 constellations? Do you know any?
Have you ever stayed up late just to watch a meteor shower?
Are you the kind of person who could stay up late to watch a meteor shower, and never see a single meteor? And still be happy about it?

Would you rather play in the snow or snuggle by a fire?
Do you think of cooking as a romantic gesture? or a responsibility?
What about cleaning? Yardwork?

Is it more important to put effort into romance before marriage or after?
Before kids or after?
Continually?



Questions for Couples: Military Service

Army, Navy, Air Force or Marines?
Do you like war movies?
Do you watch NCIS? Religiously?

Would you ever serve in the Military? Voluntarily?
Would you be willing to serve if you were drafted?
If there was a draft, would you flee? enlist on your own? go into hiding? engage in other drastic measures to avoid serving?  other?
If you were to serve in the Military would you prefer to be infantry, Special ops, or other?
How do you feel about the ROTC?
Would you enroll in the military to help pay for college?
As a weekend warrior, to help pay the bills? or because it's fun?

How would you feel about being stationed over seas for a short period of time? for a long period of time? multiple times?

If you were deployed over seas what is the one thing you think you would miss the most about America?
Rootbeer? Peanut Butter? Other?

Do know the theme song for any of the branches of the military? do you know all of them? will you sing them for me? incessantly?

If you were in the military, how would you spend your free time? what would you do to remember your standards and values?

Would you ever consider being a military chaplain? 
Would you rather be in the military or in the FBI?

Do you have a lot of family in the military?
Would you expect your children to be part of the military?

If you were enlisted, would you rather live on the base or off the base? would your answer change if you had kids? Would you like your kids to attend military schools?
What is your favorite thing about the military?

Questions for Couples: Ice Breakers

What was the last movie that you saw in the theater?
Cook or clean?
Strangest thing you've ever eaten?
favorite holiday tradition?
Please rank the following from 1 to 5  Milk, Goats milk, Soy milk, Rice milk, Almond milk

If you could pick one person as a teacher or mentor who would it be and why?

What's your favorite thing to do on Facebook™? How many "friends" do you have?
Three books you would like to read?
Favorite place to go if you just want desert? and what are you doing later?
Do you like to listen to something while you work? what?

Number of Google products you use?
How do you feel about Wolfram Alpha?
What was it you wanted to tell me?
Mac or PC? (might evoke strong emotion)

How old were you when you got your first cell phone? Could you give it up?

What's you're favorite season?

Questions for Couples: Travel

Do you like to travel?
Do you have travel goals, plans, traditions, or expectations?  What are they?
When traveling, do you make your plans based on the destination or the activity?  Explain.
Do you like to use a travel agent?

Are you willing to travel to 3rd world countries?What do you consider a 3rd world country?
Do you only like tropical locations?
Are you comfortable traveling to countries where you don't know the language?
Are there some countries that you don't want to visit?

When traveling, do you like to do humanitarian service?
Do you have to stay in 4 star hotels? Have you tried the 'President' in Athens? (I hear it's excellent).
Do you prefer to stay in hostels?
Are you willing to stay in a place with a shared bathroom?

When traveling, do you have to have every minute planned, or are you flexible to relaxation time?
Do you get grumpy if you walk too much? Too little?
Do you like to sleep in on vacation or wake up early?
Do you like to be a part of tour groups, or do you like to find your own way?

Do you like to go to church while traveling?
What do you feel is appropriate for the Sabbath while traveling?
Is that important to you?
Do you pack light, or do you have a lot of luggage?
Do you like to take a lot of pictures?  Video?

Do you have a current passport? If so passport card or passport book?
Do you have dual-citizenship? Fake IDs?
Does your country allow you to leave the premises?
Can you get visas to other countries?
Do you only want to travel in your own country? 

Are you able to be completely away from business for a week or more? Family? Your phone?  Your Laptop? Facebook? How long can you be?

Do you know how to haggle for pricing at marketplaces?
Are you okay with long flights?
How do you feel about taking public transportation in other countries?
Do you have to fly first class?
How frequently do you like to travel?
How much time can you get off for vacations?
How long do you like your vacations to be?

Do you believe in doing staycations?

Questions for Couples: Entertainment I

Do you watch a lot of movies? and how much is a lot?
What was the last movie that you saw?
Have you ever walked out of a movie?
What was the last movie you  left? why?

How do you pick the movies that you see?
Do you have a favorite critic?
Do you use a website to help you decide to see a movie? Rotten Tomatoes? Screenit? kids-in-mind? other?
What's the most important factor for you when choosing whether or not to see a movie? The story? The Dialogue? The Camerawork? Special Effects? Reviews? Content? Rating? Actors/ Actresses? Other?
Which of these factors influence your decision the most?


Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains substantial alcohol or drug use?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if the good guy smokes? what about the bad guy? what if lot of people are smoking? 
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains  a lot of blood and gore?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains disrespectful or bad attitudes?

Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains frightening scenes?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains a lot of guns and weapons? what about fictional weapons? laser cats?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains bad behavior that could be imitated?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains scenes that make you jump?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains scary or tense music? 
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains inappropriate music?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains profanity?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains blasphemy? 
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains sex or nudity?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains tense family scenes?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains topics to talk about?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains violence?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains gambling?

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Questions for Couples: Money Number II

Because Money matters are such important issues relationships, and there are so many of them we have decided to post a second entry that deals with money. Most likely there will be more money questions to come.

Do you use a budget? How closely do you follow it?

How do you feel about car insurance? Are you insured?
Do you prefer a high deductible or a low deductible?
Do you get the minimum coverage, the maximum coverage, or something in the middle.

Do you have or would you buy homeowners insurance? Renters insurance?

How do you feel about life insurance?
Do you prefer Whole-life or term-life? Do you actually know what the differences are?
How do you feel about HSA's(Health Savings Accounts)? Do you have one?
Do you prefer HSA's or Health insurance?

Are you saving for retirement?
Do you manage your retirement monies or does someone else?
Does your company have a pension plan?
Do you have an IRA?
Do you prefer Roth IRA's or traditional IRA's?

What do you think is the best method to save for retirement?
a)I'm not concerned about that yet
b)I like IRA's
c)I like savings bonds
d)Mutual funds
e)T-notes
f)Money Market
g)In a checking account
h)I keep it under the mattress... I mean it's not under the mattress, but that seems the safest. Ü
i)GOLD Bullion
j)I think the stock market is best (if yes, choose one of the following)
  • As long as you buy the Blue chips
  • I think penny stocks offer the best returns
  • You won't make the big gains, if you don't take the big risks
  • I like a diverse portfolio
  • Other
k)I think real estate provides the best retirement investment
l)I like a combination of some of these options
m)I'm planning to win the lottery (I have a system Ü)
n)Other

How do you feel about playing the lottery?
Do you gamble? Are you addicted?

Do you play the slots? if yes do you prefer the cheap ones, or the bigger slots
Do you play poker? Which kind do you prefer?
How do you feel about blackjack?
Roulette? Keno? Craps?

Is bingo Gambling?
What if it's free?
Would you stay at a casino for a business trip? for a family vacation?
Is it gambling if the casino gives you a free credit, some chips, or some money to play with?
If you gamble how much would you spend at one time? On the same trip?
In a year?

Do you bet on sports?
Do you bet on horses?
How do you feel about friendly wagers?
What about potentially embarrassing wagers or deals?

Would you tell your spouse about the money you won through one of these methods?
What about the money you lost? Would the amount make a difference?

Questions for Couples: Physical Appearance

How do you feel about tattoos?
Do you have any tattoos? If yes how many?
Do you like tattoos that people can see? that are covered?
Do you want to get any tattoos?
What kind of tattoos do you like most?
If you got a tattoo, where would you put?
What would be your reason for getting or not getting a tattoo?

How do you feel about Henna Tattoos? Are they the same as permanent tattoos or different? Why?

What about tattoos from a candy wrapper? Costume tattoos?

Would you consider 'permanent make-up' that could be tattooed on a good solution? Would you have it done to you?

Do you have any piercings? Ears? Face? Other?
How do you feel about piercings on Guys? How many should a guy have?
How do you feel about piercings on Girls? How many should a girl have?
How do you feel about non-traditional piercings like the top of the ear, nose, cheek?

How do you feel about cultural piercings?
Would you want your children to have any piercings?
Would you pierce your daughters ears when they are born?
How old do you think a person should be when they get a piercing?
Is a piercing a parents decision or the child's decision?
How do you feel about clip-on earrings?

Do you dye your hair?
Would you dye your hair? to another natural color? to an unnatural color?
Would you put natural looking accents in your hair? Blue accents? Green? other?

How often would you change your hair color? Dye your hair?

Questions for Couples: Chores

How do you feel about chores?
How often do you think a house should be cleaned?
Do you prefer to do the cleaning? or would you hire someone to do it?
Would you ever hire a maid?
How clean/ dirty would you want your house when the maid arrived?
How often would you have a maid come by?

How clean do you like your house?
Are there parts that you expect to be more clean?
Do you make your bed every morning? Do you expect someone else to make the bed?

How do you feel about dishes?
Do you prefer to wash by hand or use a dishwasher?
Are washing and drying one job or two?
Do you prefer to wash or dry?

Who takes out the trash?

How do you feel about yard work?
Would you hire a yard care service?
What about a neighborhood child?
Do you enjoy weeding?
Do you enjoy a garden?
Do you care how your yard looks?
Do you prefer a yard that is mostly grass? Xeriscaped? Well ornamented?
Would you hire a landscaper?

Would you winterize your house yourself?
Who should rake up leaves?
Who shovels the snow?
Would you pay someone to shovel the walks?
When should the snow be shoveled? Why on earth would anyone want to live where it snows?
Snowblower or Shovel?
Do you shovel a pathwway or do you shovel the whole thing?
Do you help your neighbors clear their snow after you have finished with the snow on your property? Do you help them first? Do you know your neighbors?
Would you take your neighbors cookies? Bread?
How do you feel about borrowing food from the neighbors?

Who should do the cooking?
Can you cook?
Who prepares breakfast? is it cooked? What about dinner?
Is the person who cooks responsible for the clean-up? or is it the other persons job?

Do you prefer to have a job-chart? or do you prefer to just work on things that need to be done?
Do you use a to-do list? do you ever finish it?

Who does the laundry? How often? Is the laundry one job? two jobs? three jobs? or more?

Questions for Couples: Sports

How much would you spend to go to a sporting event?
How much would you spend once you got there?

Would you ever buy Season Tickets? For what sports? How often would you use them?
What type of seat would you get?

Do you have a Gym membership? Do you use it? How do you feel about Gyms?
Do you have a Wii? is that really exercise? Do you use it?
Do you prefer Dance Dance Revolution or Pump It Up Exceed? Square Dancing? Dance Clubs? Country Dancing? NO DANCING?

Do you have any injuries that keep you from being as active/ healthy as you would like?
What do you do about them?


Are you into extreme sports? to watch or to participate? Which ones do you like?
Is anything too extreme for you?
DO you consider Shuffleboard extreme?

How often do you exercise?
Do you plan on staying fit after you get married?
Are you obsessed with any sporting activities? To watch or to participate? which ones?

If your significant other was interested in Playing sports, would you play with them? would you watch?
Is there a sport that you like that you want me to watch you play or play with you?
What sports would you play? Volleyball? Soccer? Basketball? Softball? Tennis? Football? Other?

What are your hobbies/recreation preferences and limits?
What are your feelings about hunting/fishing and your/my participation in them?

Do you root for the home team? Whoever is winning? the underdog?
How many teams do you have?
How do you feel about College sports?
Would you attend? would you watch them on tv?
What about championships?

How do you feel about Pro sports?

High School Sports?

City league?

Little league or Pee Wee's?
Would you ever be a coach or referee? Do you expect your kids to participate in this type of activity? If so which sports?

How do you feel about curling?
What about Golf?
Shuffleboard?

Questions for Couples: Ice Breakers

Waterfalls or Water-skis?

Movie Stars or Starry Nights?

Porch swings or Golf swings?

Fig Newton or Newtonian Physics?

Computer screens or Sunscreen?

Questions for Couples: Animals

Today's topic: Animals.
Do you like animals?
Are you afraid of any? Spiders? Snakes? Dogs? Mongoose?
Do you have any pets?
Do you have strong feelings towards cats? Dogs? Rodents?
Would you ever own a snake?
How about a pet insect?
Would you have a mouse as a pet? how about a rat? fish? gerbils? birds?
Would you prefer papered animals that you could sell?
How do you feel about animals from shelters?
How do you feel about horses? Cows?
Would you live on a farm?
Are you Vegetarian?
Are you Vegan?
Are you Pescatarian?
Are you some other variation of an ism that deals with what you will and will not eat?
Do you know what any of these thing really are?
Do you actually like tofu?
What are your feelings on Milk?
Do you prefer whole milk or skim milk?
Do you prefer goat's milk or cow's milk?
What are your feelings about Rice Milk? Soy Milk? Almond Milk?
What about powdered milk? and Evaporated Milk
Would you raise chickens for the eggs?
Could you eat those chickens?
Would you own your own goats (for the milk)?
Would you eat them?
Are you in favor of or against eating fish?
Are you in favor of or against eating Beef?
Are you in favor of or against eating Ham?
Are you in favor of or against eating Bacon?
Are you in favor of or against other pork products?
Are you in favor of or against eating Turkey?
Are you in favor of or against eating game birds?
Are you in favor of or against eating Large game (like deer or elk)?
Are you in favor of or against lamb/ Mutton etc.?
Are you a hunter?
How do you feel about hunting?
What if you spouse wants to?
What if you need food?
What if you spouse likes hunting shows?
How do you feel about fishing?
How do you feel about seafood?
Raw seafood?
Caviar? Escargot?
Would you kill an insect if it bugged you?
Would you kill larger animals if they bugged you?
What if an insect stung/ bit you would you kill it?
Would you use what you kill?
How much of it would you use?

Questions for Couples: Complaining.

Is there a time for complaining?
What do you complain about?
Who do you complain to?
How often do you complain?

If you got the wrong meal would you send it back?
If your meal wasn't cooked right would you send it back?
Would you air your grievances to the other people you are with?
Do you dwell on things like this?

What if you get a room that you don't like?
While on a business trip? While on vacation?
Does the type of room you get matter?
What about the direction it faces?
What if you get a smoking room, but you asked for a non-smoking one?
What if you're room has bugs?
What if the TV or microwave didn't work?
How many times would you change rooms?


Do you complain to people who can do something?
Do you complain to the worker or the manager?
Do you complain to both worker and manager? and everyone in between?

Do you complain about things you can do something about?
Do you complain about things you can do nothing about?
Do you complain about things that the person you're complaining to can do something about?
Do you complain about things that no one can do something about?

Do you complain about the weather? If you do what type of weather?
Do you complain about traffic? Do you complain about people who drive too fast?
What about people who drive to slow? What about people who drive the speed limit?
Construction? Cops cars?

Do you write letters to complain?
Do you call people?
Do you leave notes? everywhere?

Do you write to Hollywood?
Do you write to Washington?
Do you write to the President? Your congressmen? Your Senators? Governors? Mayors? Council people?
Do you attend city council meetings?
Do you vote? Would you run? If elected would you serve?

Memorial Day Special: Questions for Couples

When you think of Memorial Day what do you think?
Do you celebrate Memorial Day?
Do you visit a cemetery?
Do you visit multiple cemeteries?
Do you have to visit every cemetery where you have relatives?
Do you think of Memorial Day as a day to celebrate anyone who is no longer living? Anyone who has served in the military? Specifically those died in the civil war?
How do you feel about veterans?
How do you feel about the military?

Do you take flowers to graves? If yes what kind of flowers? Does the type of flower matter to you? Does the color of flower matter to you? Would you take fake flowers to a grave? Would you take flowers from another's grave?
Do you like to go early to clean headstones?
Have you ever lost someone close to you?
How many grandparents do you have living?
Do you know where all of your relatives are buried?
Is Memorial Day more about those who have past on or those that you are with?
Does Memorial Day make you sad?
Would you fly a flag for memorial day?
When you visit a cemetery do you prefer to know where you are going, or to wander until you find your relatives?
How do you feel about walking through cemeteries?
Are there places that you won't walk?
Would you sit on a headstone?
Do you have feelings about hats in a cemetery?
Do you know what a dirge is? do you have any feelings about them?

Do you have any other memorial day traditions?
Barbeques? Picnics? Softball games? Camping?
Does Memorial Day = Watermelon? Can you pick a good watermelon?

Questions for Couples: Homes

What type of house would you prefer to live in?
Would you live in a trailer park?
Would you live in a mobile home? not in a trailer park?
How do you feel about manufactured homes? what about manufactured homes on land that you do not own?
Would you live in a condominium? What about a Town Home?
How do you feel about starter homes?
Would you prefer to buy a house or build one?

Would you buy a home if it needed repairs?
Would you buy an old house? how old?
How much repairs are you willing to do on a home?
How handy are you?
Would you want to fix your house yourself? or would you rather hire people to do it.
How do you feel about living in a house while it is being worked on.
Carpet? Tile? Hardwood floors? Linoleum? What are you talking about... I prefer dirt.
Same question a) for bathrooms b) for the kitchen c) Bedrooms d) other rooms
How do you feel about rugs? what if they are on your head?
Do you prefer plush carpets? or something more solid?

Would you prefer to decorate the house yourself? or hire someone to do it?
Who is in charge of the decorations?
What do you think of two-toned walls?
How do you feel about wallpaper? what about textured walls?
How do you feel about carpeted walls?
How do you feel about paneling?
Are you very decisive on these types of things?
Do you like crown molding? floor boards? have any preference?

How do you feel about pictures on your walls?
What type of things would you like to have pictures of?
How do you feel about family pictures around the house?
Do you prefer photographs? lithographs? original paintings? prints? other?
Would you rather hang artwork by family and friends, or by professional artists?
Do you prefer pictures with recognizable subjects, or do you prefer abstract works?
Do you like to decorate rooms on a theme? what about the whole house?
How do you feel about antlers? taxidermy? other trophies?
Do you think of guns as something you want displayed?
What kind of things would you display?
Do you collect anything? is it beanie babies?
How would you display things? Do you like curios? cabinets? objects on furniture? hanging things on the walls? hanging things from the ceiling?
How do you feel about nails in the walls? what about stick-tak? what about tape? does it matter what kind of tape?
Do you prefer to hang pictures at eye level or some other height?
Whose eye would you level it to?

Do you like a single level house? a multi -level house?
If you want a multi- level how many levels do you want?
How do you feel about multiple levels in one room?
Do you like basements? attics?
Do you like tall ceilings? how tall?
Do you like tall counter-tops? cabinets?

How many bathrooms do you need? how many do you want?
Are half baths ok?
Do you prefer a shower or a tub?
Do you prefer a single shower head or multiple one?
Do you prefer a movable shower head or a stationary one?
Do you prefer to have things in cabinets? or on counters?
What can you leave on the counter? or the floor?
Do you have any other bathroom preferences?

Do you want a separate dining area?
How do you feel about food outside the kitchen?
Curtains? blinds? both? neither? not significant?
What type of blinds do you like, if that is your choice?
Do you know about the magic cupboard?
How do you prefer to store your kitchen knives?

Do you think a tv should be in the living room? bedroom? bathroom? kitchen? every room?
What about radios?
What type of tv do you prefer?
What size tv do you want?
Do you care about surround sound?
How do you feel about intercoms?

Do you have a favorite type of energy?
Would you use (or avoid) wind power? natural gas? propane? electricity? solar panels? hydro-electric? gas powered- generators? oil? coal? wood-burning stoves?

Do you prefer natural light? sky lights? windows? Light bulbs?
What type of light bulbs do you prefer?
Are there any that you won't use?
Do you prefer bedroom windows to face a certain direction? Why?
Do you like lots of windows?
How do you feel about windows that don't open?

Questions for Couples

Where are you from?
Does it bother you that I just ended that sentence with a preposition?
Do you know what a preposition is?

Questions for Couples: Money - Part I

Do you have a budget?
If yes, how well do you follow that budget?
Do you save some of your money?
Do you currently have money in savings?
What are your feelings about debt?
For what do you think it is acceptable to go into debt?
How much debt are you willing to carry?
Do you have any debts?
If yes what type of debts do you have? Mortgage? Car loans? Business? School?
Do you have any credit Card debt?
What interest rate do you get on your credit card(s)?
If you use a credit card, how do you use it?
What are good reasons for using a credit card?
How do you feel about pay-day loans?
Do you know your credit score? How is it?
Do you check your credit regularly?

Do you have a checking account?
How often do you use it?
Do you prefer to use a debit card, or a check?
How do you keep track of your purchases?
How well do you keep track of account balances?
Do you ever over-draw your account (or bounce a check)?
How often do you bounce checks?
Do you think that a couple should have all their money in one account? or should each person have separate accounts?
Do you have a specific bank that you have to use?
Do you have any banks that you want to avoid?
Do you think that all your money should be in one bank, or do you think that you should split your money among various banks?
Are you loyal to a bank? or do you look for the best deals?
What are your thoughts about credit unions? Do you prefer? Avoid? or have no preference?
What type of bank accounts do you have? Cds? Savings? Checking? Interest Checking? Money Market?

What are your thoughts on investing?
Do you have any investments?
How do you feel about the stock market?
What is your investment style?
Do you prefer low risk or high yield?
How do you feel about mutual funds?
What about hedge funds?
What do you think about investing in real-estate?
Would you invest in real-estate for speculation? or as a long term asset?
If you invest in real-estate, how would you do it?
Would you invest in undeveloped land?
What about unincorporated rural areas?
Would you buy houses? or apartments?
If you owned rental properties would you manage them yourself or would you hire a management company?
How would you go about getting things fixed in your rental properties? Would you do it yourself?
Do you think all houses are "temporary investments," or do you prefer to stay in a house once it is yours?

Do you have a mortgage?
Is it upside down?
If you have a mortgage, how many years do you have left on it? How large are the monthly payments?
Do you prefer to pay monthly or bi-weekly?
How do you feel about Adjustable Rate Mortgages?
How do you feel about Interest only loans?
What are your thoughts on Reverse Mortgages? (When the bank pays you for X amount of years and then claims the property when you pass away)
What are your thoughts on Second Mortgages?
How do you feel about Home Equity loans?
Would you use a Home Equity loan for repairs or improvements to your home? Would you use a Home equity loan for things not related to your home?
When does a house become a home?
How do you feel about owning a home verses renting?

Questions for Couples: Vacations

What is your vacation style?
Do you want to go and relax?
Do you want to cram in as much cool stuff as possible?
Is sleeping-in a requirement? What about sleeping period?
Do you care more for low prices or fun things?
Is your priority eating familiar foods or do you like to try something uniquely local?
If you've seen one museum, have you truly seen them all? Really Dad?
If traveling over a Sunday, do you want to attend church in the area?
If yes, all of church or just Sacrament Meeting?
If no, do you care if the people you are with go, or will that derail your schedule?

Do you expect to do everything with the people you travel with or do you plan to go your own way every now and then?
Are you particular about your traveling companion's suitcase cleanliness when staying more than one night in the same place?
Would you consider brown-bagging a meal or two?
Would you sacrifice and/or postpone greatly eating a meal in order to arrive at a destination earlier?
How far are you willing to travel in a day?
Will you use the most cost-effective method or the most comfortable?
Would you take a taxi? What about a bus? The train or subway?
How do feel about cruising? What about flying?
Will you travel outside the U.S.?
How long is your ideal vacation?
Do you prefer to repeat favorite vacation destinations? Or are you more interested in going someplace new?
How do you feel about camping? What about R.V.s?
Do you need your own personal entourage just for your luggage? Is one carry-on all you ever need?
What are your hotel amenity requirements?
Do you prefer to visit family and stay with them?

What about visiting family and not staying with them?
If visiting family do you want to sight-see with them or just visit them?
Is planning part of the fun for you?
Would you rather plan a vacation than go on one?
Do you want reservations at every stop or just whatever is available when you get there?
What about traveling during the peak vacation season? For or against?
Do large crowds of other vacationers make you stay away?
Are you willing to do typical tourist stuff?
Would you do a spa vacation?
What about thrill-seeking/extreme activities?

Do you snore? If yes, how badly?
Do you talk in your sleep? If yes, do you say anything interesting?
Do you take hotel mini-shampoos, etc.? What about towels or pillows? Where do you draw the line?
How do you feel about tipping? Are you more on the generous or cheap side? Who do you tip? Cab drivers? Maids?
If flying, do you go first-class or economy?
Are there airlines that you won't fly with?
Do you like to travel on your own or with a group?
If with a group, on an official tour?
Do you speak any foreign languages? If yes, do you mind translating?

Submited by my sister (with contributions from me).

Questions for Couples: Food

Do you have any Holiday food traditions?
What do you eat for Thanksgiving Dinner?
What do you do for Birthdays?
How many meals do you eat each day?
Who prepared the meals in your family?
Do you think that a family should eat together? For which meals?
How often did your dad cook meals?
How often did your mom cook for you?
How important are your family recipes to you?
How often do you cook?

How well do you cook?
What do you think about a cooked breakfast?
How often do you like to eat out?
What type of restaurants do you like the most?
What type of restaurants do you like the least?
How picky are you about your pizza?
What is your favorite kind/ brand of pizza?
How do you think cooking duties should be divided?
How important is this to you?
How do you think shopping duties should be divided?

Are there stores for which you have strong feelings?
Do you prefer to buy things at one store or shop around?
What are your feelings on coupons?
Are there any specialty stores that you like to frequent?
Do you have any food allergies?
Are there foods that you will not eat?
Are there foods where you have to buy certain brands?
What are your feelings about fruits and vegetables?
Do you want to have a garden?
Who decides what will be planted in the garden?

Who takes care of the garden? Watering? Weeding?
What are your thoughts on pesticides?
Who will harvest your produce?
Do you make your own juice?
What are your thoughts on canning?
What are your thoughts on food storage?