Questions for Couples: Ice Breakers
What is your favorite candy bar?
Do you chew gum? What kind is your favorite?
What is your favorite food, or kind of food?
What is your favorite kind of drink?
How do you like to end a date?
If your date came in for a kiss on the first date, what would you do?What was the best date you have ever been on? Why was it your favorite?
How would you imagine your ideal date?
What's the hardest thing you've ever done?
What was the scariest thing you've ever done?
What is the coolest thing you've ever done?
What makes you angry?
What makes really happy?What is your favorite thing about yourself?
Where were you raised?
What is your favorite childhood memory?
Do you prefer paper or plastic? or do you use those reusable bags?
Do you clean your reusable bags? how often? Would you take bags from one store into a different store? What color do you think looks best on you?Do you dye your hair or is it natural? How often do you dye it?
After a long night would you still get up early an make yourself look good? Would you go to class as you are? Would you skip your first class, but get ready for your next one?
What is your favorite kind of Ice Cream?
Do you have a favorite brand of ice cream?
Do you want to go get some ice cream now?
What is your favorite fruit?
If you had to rank the following fruits how would you rank them and why?
Pineapple, Orange, Apple, Banana, and grape.
How would you feel if your date took you to McDonalds? Would it change things if you knew they were poor? What if you knew they weren't poor? What if they took you to get a happy meal?
Questions for Couples: Education II
Did/ do you like school?
What was your favorite subject? What was your least favorite?
Did you have a favorite teacher? Why were they your favorite?
Did you take music lessons when you were younger? Did you practice?
How do you feel about music lessons? What instruments do you play?
What instruments do you wish you could play?
Have you ever taken band classes? Orchestra? Painting classes? Ceramics? Drama classes?
What class do you think you learned the most from? What class (es) do you think you learned the least from? What were your favorite subjects while you were in school? What were your least favorite subjects? What types of classes did you do well?
Did you ever eat school lunch? How was it? Did you ever pack a lunch? Did you ever eat off-campus? Do you like the idea of schools having vending machines?
Did you take a foreign language in school? Did you learn a foreign language in school? Do you know any ASL? What languages do you know? what languages do you wish you knew?
Have you ever participated in a study-abroad program? Would you let your kids spend a semester in a foreign country? Does the specific country matter? Would you let them spend a year? Do you think service abroad programs are educational? How do you feel about service in a foreign country without a sponsoring organization? How do you feel about Peace Corps?
Would it make your decision easier or harder if they were going with a friend? What if the friend was not their same gender? What if they went with a larger group of people?
Do you think there are subjects that everybody should study? If yes what subjects do you think everybody should learn? Do you think it is better for a person to really excel at one thing, or to have a basic understanding of a lot of things? How involved do you think a child should be in setting their curriculum? Do you think that anyone can learn anything?
Are there books that you think everyone should read? Is "Up from Slavery" one of them? Are there books that you don't think people should read? Did you have/use Encyclopedias when you were growing up? Do you think you will actually own a set of encyclopedias?
What was your favorite subject? What was your least favorite?
Did you have a favorite teacher? Why were they your favorite?
Did you take music lessons when you were younger? Did you practice?
How do you feel about music lessons? What instruments do you play?
What instruments do you wish you could play?
Have you ever taken band classes? Orchestra? Painting classes? Ceramics? Drama classes?
What class do you think you learned the most from? What class (es) do you think you learned the least from? What were your favorite subjects while you were in school? What were your least favorite subjects? What types of classes did you do well?
Did you ever eat school lunch? How was it? Did you ever pack a lunch? Did you ever eat off-campus? Do you like the idea of schools having vending machines?
Did you take a foreign language in school? Did you learn a foreign language in school? Do you know any ASL? What languages do you know? what languages do you wish you knew?
Have you ever participated in a study-abroad program? Would you let your kids spend a semester in a foreign country? Does the specific country matter? Would you let them spend a year? Do you think service abroad programs are educational? How do you feel about service in a foreign country without a sponsoring organization? How do you feel about Peace Corps?
Would it make your decision easier or harder if they were going with a friend? What if the friend was not their same gender? What if they went with a larger group of people?
Do you think there are subjects that everybody should study? If yes what subjects do you think everybody should learn? Do you think it is better for a person to really excel at one thing, or to have a basic understanding of a lot of things? How involved do you think a child should be in setting their curriculum? Do you think that anyone can learn anything?
Are there books that you think everyone should read? Is "Up from Slavery" one of them? Are there books that you don't think people should read? Did you have/use Encyclopedias when you were growing up? Do you think you will actually own a set of encyclopedias?
Questions for Couples: Ice Breakers
Do you prefer chocolate of flowers? What’s your favorite kind of chocolate? What’s your favorite kind of flower? What’s your favorite color of flower? What’s your least favorite color of flower.
Which parent do you look most like?
What was your childhood dream?
Did you ever have an imaginary friend? what was it? what was it’s name?
If you could have any pet, which one would you choose?
Are you a competitive person? How would you react if you date beat you at something?
do you consider yourself outgoing or shy?
Do you believe that a relationship comes easily or takes work?
Were you a bully when you were younger?
What is the most dangerous thing you have ever done?
Have you ever broken any bones? How?
What is your most embarrassing moment?
What is your favorite jelly bean?
Do you like to pull pranks? what is the best prank you have ever been a part of? If you don’t like pranks, why not?
What color are your eyes? Do you like your eye color?
What is your favorite color?
Do you prefer to use cash or card? How many cards do you have?
How often do you use them?
Have you ever left the state you live in?
Where is your favorite place?
What are your hobbies?
What is the craziest thing you have ever done?
What do you do when you are bored?
Did you have a pet as a child? What was it’s name?
Who is your hero? Why are they your hero?
Who in you life has made an impression on you?
Who is your best friend and why?
Which parent do you look most like?
What was your childhood dream?
Did you ever have an imaginary friend? what was it? what was it’s name?
If you could have any pet, which one would you choose?
Are you a competitive person? How would you react if you date beat you at something?
do you consider yourself outgoing or shy?
Do you believe that a relationship comes easily or takes work?
Were you a bully when you were younger?
What is the most dangerous thing you have ever done?
Have you ever broken any bones? How?
What is your most embarrassing moment?
What is your favorite jelly bean?
Do you like to pull pranks? what is the best prank you have ever been a part of? If you don’t like pranks, why not?
What color are your eyes? Do you like your eye color?
What is your favorite color?
Do you prefer to use cash or card? How many cards do you have?
How often do you use them?
Have you ever left the state you live in?
Where is your favorite place?
What are your hobbies?
What is the craziest thing you have ever done?
What do you do when you are bored?
Did you have a pet as a child? What was it’s name?
Who is your hero? Why are they your hero?
Who in you life has made an impression on you?
Who is your best friend and why?
Questions for Couples: Education
Do you feel strongly about education?
How much education do you have?
How important do you think formal education is? What about degrees?
Would you get a degree from an unaccredited school? why or why not?
How do you feel about preschool? Did you attend one? do you want your kids to attend one? would you ever try to run one?
Do you have any educational licenses? How important do you think licenses and accreditations are?
Would you ever home school your kids? would you home school other peoples children? How do you feel about educational co-ops, where groups of parents teach different subjects to each others children?
Do you prefer public school or private schools? what about charter schools?
What do you think are the advantages of each? what do you think are their disadvantages?
Are you willing to consider that they may not be what you think that they are?
Would you prefer a church run school? What about a church-like school? Would you attend (or send kids to) a school that was affiliated with a different religion?
How important do you think religious education is?
Would you ever send your kids to a boarding school? an out-of-state boarding school? a youth wilderness program?
How much education do you have?
How important do you think formal education is? What about degrees?
Would you get a degree from an unaccredited school? why or why not?
How do you feel about preschool? Did you attend one? do you want your kids to attend one? would you ever try to run one?
Do you have any educational licenses? How important do you think licenses and accreditations are?
Would you ever home school your kids? would you home school other peoples children? How do you feel about educational co-ops, where groups of parents teach different subjects to each others children?
Do you prefer public school or private schools? what about charter schools?
What do you think are the advantages of each? what do you think are their disadvantages?
Are you willing to consider that they may not be what you think that they are?
Would you prefer a church run school? What about a church-like school? Would you attend (or send kids to) a school that was affiliated with a different religion?
How important do you think religious education is?
Would you ever send your kids to a boarding school? an out-of-state boarding school? a youth wilderness program?
Questions for Couples: Whose job is it anyway?
There are a lot of things that need to be done in any household. These questions pertain to some of the things that need to be done, and how you will divide the tasks you may have. With these questions you may want to see whose responsibility (primarily) a task will be. If you want to share a task, how will that be done? What about your kids? What role will they play? And what if your circumstances are not as you plan? How will you handle those situations?
Who gets to mow the lawn? What about edging it? Who will weed the garden? Is the same person responsible for the vegetable garden and the flower garden? do yo want to grow your own vegetables? and flowers?
Who will be in charge of bringing home the bacon? But seriously, there is going to be some bacon right? Who will set the budget? Who will balance the checkbook/ accounts? Who will pay the bills? And if bill pay is automatic, who gets to set that up? Who will buy the insurance? What kinds of insurance will you have? Who will buy the food? Who is in charge of buying clothes?
Who will do the driving? Who will buy the gas? Who will be in charge of automobile purchasing? Maintenance? Who decides when the car needs someone more experienced?
Who will drive the kids to school? How do you feel about buses? Who will take the kids to athletic activities? other activities? music lessons?
Who is in charge of making lunches? What about bread? rolls? cinnamon rolls? Who will cook the other meals?
Who will feed the animals? who will name the animals? wait how many animals did you want again? Who will walk the dog(s)? Who will kill unwanted creatures (i.e.; insects and things)?
Who will feed the baby? in the middle of the night? Who will change the diapers? in the middle of the night? Who will put the baby down to sleep?
Who is in charge of disciplining the children? good cop / bad cop, or all one team? Who will go to parent teacher conferences? The principals office? Who will be responsible for family worship? Family prayer? Who will plan special family outings? Vacations? Date night? Who will get the baby sitter?
Who will buy the toiletries? who will bathe the kids? who will braid their hair? who will pick out ticks? what about lice?
Who will clean the house? Who will clean the bathrooms? Who will scrub the toilets? what about tile and grout? Who replaces the toilet paper?
Who will do the dusting? Who will sweep the floors? who will do the mopping? Vacuuming? Is there a certain order in which you like these to be done?
Who is in charge of home repairs? What about home decor? Who is in charge of picking up the mail? Who will pick the family doctors? who will take people to the doctors?
These questions were collected in I class I was in.
Who gets to mow the lawn? What about edging it? Who will weed the garden? Is the same person responsible for the vegetable garden and the flower garden? do yo want to grow your own vegetables? and flowers?
Who will be in charge of bringing home the bacon? But seriously, there is going to be some bacon right? Who will set the budget? Who will balance the checkbook/ accounts? Who will pay the bills? And if bill pay is automatic, who gets to set that up? Who will buy the insurance? What kinds of insurance will you have? Who will buy the food? Who is in charge of buying clothes?
Who will do the driving? Who will buy the gas? Who will be in charge of automobile purchasing? Maintenance? Who decides when the car needs someone more experienced?
Who will drive the kids to school? How do you feel about buses? Who will take the kids to athletic activities? other activities? music lessons?
Who is in charge of making lunches? What about bread? rolls? cinnamon rolls? Who will cook the other meals?
Who will feed the animals? who will name the animals? wait how many animals did you want again? Who will walk the dog(s)? Who will kill unwanted creatures (i.e.; insects and things)?
Who will feed the baby? in the middle of the night? Who will change the diapers? in the middle of the night? Who will put the baby down to sleep?
Who is in charge of disciplining the children? good cop / bad cop, or all one team? Who will go to parent teacher conferences? The principals office? Who will be responsible for family worship? Family prayer? Who will plan special family outings? Vacations? Date night? Who will get the baby sitter?
Who will buy the toiletries? who will bathe the kids? who will braid their hair? who will pick out ticks? what about lice?
Who will clean the house? Who will clean the bathrooms? Who will scrub the toilets? what about tile and grout? Who replaces the toilet paper?
Who will do the dusting? Who will sweep the floors? who will do the mopping? Vacuuming? Is there a certain order in which you like these to be done?
Who is in charge of home repairs? What about home decor? Who is in charge of picking up the mail? Who will pick the family doctors? who will take people to the doctors?
These questions were collected in I class I was in.
Questions for Couples: Games
Does your family have any gaming traditions?
Do you like to play games?
What types of games do you play? Board games? Video games? Card games?
Large group games? Word games? Role-playing games? Solitaire games?
What is your favorite Solitaire game?
Do you play Computer games? What kind?
Farmville? Halo? Sims? Second Life? Tetris?
Do you have strong feelings about first person Shooter games?
Does your feeling about these games change if you are fighting monsters?
Aliens? Fictional Characters? the undead?
Do you have a video game system? How many do you have?
What kind is it? What do you like to play on it?
How often do you like to play?
Do you expect me to play with you?
Will you let me play with you?
Do you have accessories for your game systems? Which ones do you have?
What games did you play as a child?
Are you addicted to any games? are you sure?
What is your best score on Minesweeper?
Do you play games with face cards? why or why not?
Do you like to play poker? Black Jack? something else?
Do you like to gamble? how good are you at these things?
How often do you play?
How much $$$ will you spend? How much have you won?
Where do you do it?
Do you have any monthly subscriptions to be able to play any games?
Do you have any other monthly subscriptions to services, magazines, or
entertainment? What are they? How attached are you to them?
Do you like to play games?
What types of games do you play? Board games? Video games? Card games?
Large group games? Word games? Role-playing games? Solitaire games?
What is your favorite Solitaire game?
Do you play Computer games? What kind?
Farmville? Halo? Sims? Second Life? Tetris?
Do you have strong feelings about first person Shooter games?
Does your feeling about these games change if you are fighting monsters?
Aliens? Fictional Characters? the undead?
Do you have a video game system? How many do you have?
What kind is it? What do you like to play on it?
How often do you like to play?
Do you expect me to play with you?
Will you let me play with you?
Do you have accessories for your game systems? Which ones do you have?
What games did you play as a child?
Are you addicted to any games? are you sure?
What is your best score on Minesweeper?
Do you play games with face cards? why or why not?
Do you like to play poker? Black Jack? something else?
Do you like to gamble? how good are you at these things?
How often do you play?
How much $$$ will you spend? How much have you won?
Where do you do it?
Do you have any monthly subscriptions to be able to play any games?
Do you have any other monthly subscriptions to services, magazines, or
entertainment? What are they? How attached are you to them?
Questions for Couples: Food... well, Snacks
Would you rather have a snack, or a meal?
How often do you like to have a snack?
What kind of snacks do you like the most?
Do you prefer sweet or salty snacks?
How do you feel about store bought snacks? Homemade snacks? Fast food Snacks?
What about Store bought snacks that you still have to make?
Do you have a favorite brownie mix? Have you tried Lehi Roller Mills brownies?
Do you prefer crinkle cut chips (like Ruffles) or regular potato chips?
Do you like chips with a big bold flavor, or do you like the unadulterated versions?
How do you feel about Sun Chips? Bugles? Funions? Cheetos?
Do you think Crunchy Cheetos are better than the the puffy kind?
What about the balls? Does the brand of a cheesy snack really even matter?
And how do they get all that big cheese flavor into Cheez-its?
Would you ever buy the low fat version of a snack? the baked version? Low sodium? Diet? Artificially sweetened?
How do you feel about Microwave Popcorn? Kettle corn? Carmel Corn?
Do you make the best popcorn in the world? can you prove it? Can I have a sample? I'll be the judge of that.
Do you avoid sugary substances? are you Diabetic?
Do you have a favorite sugary substance? or any that you avoid?
Do you like things sweetened with real sugar? organic sugar? honey? Nutri-sweet?
Corn syrup? Do you have a favorite artificial sweetener?
Or non-artificial sweetener that isn't on the list?
Do you have a favorite kind of honey? Did you know there were different kinds of honey?
Do you prefer creamy honey or the liquid kind? Does it have to come in a bear?
Do you prefer clover honey? Mesquite? or something else?
What about flavored honeys? Would you call your significant other honey?
Would you eat a snack that you didn't like just to impress a date?
Would you try a food that you thought you might not like, because a date wanted you to? what about a spouse? Would you ask a date to try a food that they might not like?
How often do you like to have a snack?
What kind of snacks do you like the most?
Do you prefer sweet or salty snacks?
How do you feel about store bought snacks? Homemade snacks? Fast food Snacks?
What about Store bought snacks that you still have to make?
Do you have a favorite brownie mix? Have you tried Lehi Roller Mills brownies?
Do you prefer crinkle cut chips (like Ruffles) or regular potato chips?
Do you like chips with a big bold flavor, or do you like the unadulterated versions?
How do you feel about Sun Chips? Bugles? Funions? Cheetos?
Do you think Crunchy Cheetos are better than the the puffy kind?
What about the balls? Does the brand of a cheesy snack really even matter?
And how do they get all that big cheese flavor into Cheez-its?
Would you ever buy the low fat version of a snack? the baked version? Low sodium? Diet? Artificially sweetened?
How do you feel about Microwave Popcorn? Kettle corn? Carmel Corn?
Do you make the best popcorn in the world? can you prove it? Can I have a sample? I'll be the judge of that.
Do you avoid sugary substances? are you Diabetic?
Do you have a favorite sugary substance? or any that you avoid?
Do you like things sweetened with real sugar? organic sugar? honey? Nutri-sweet?
Corn syrup? Do you have a favorite artificial sweetener?
Or non-artificial sweetener that isn't on the list?
Do you have a favorite kind of honey? Did you know there were different kinds of honey?
Do you prefer creamy honey or the liquid kind? Does it have to come in a bear?
Do you prefer clover honey? Mesquite? or something else?
What about flavored honeys? Would you call your significant other honey?
Would you eat a snack that you didn't like just to impress a date?
Would you try a food that you thought you might not like, because a date wanted you to? what about a spouse? Would you ask a date to try a food that they might not like?
Questions for Couples: Superheros
If you could be any superhero which one would you be?
If you could have one superpower which one would you choose?
Would you rather be a superhero or a super-villain?
Is Batman a Superhero or just a wealthy hero with really cool toys?
Do you need a minute to recover from that last question?
What about James Bond, Is he a super hero? Which Bond is your favorite? You have heard of James bond right? Double-oh seven (007)?
Is it wrong to use your superpowers for your own personal gain?
what about for somebody else's personal gain?
Should superheros have secret identities? Should Superheros be supported by the people? or vice versa?
What's the best way to gain superpowers? a meteor? happenstance?
genetics? genetically engineered chromosomes? chemistry accidents?
If you could pick one superpower for a spouse, what would you pick?
Would you be jealous if your spouse had superpowers and you did not? What if you both had superpowers, but theirs were cooler than yours?
What kind of sidekick would you pick?
What kind of superhero outfit would you pick?
And why do superheros always wear spandex?
How do you feel about spandex?
Would you have like to your own theme music?
Do you already have a theme song?
Do you think superheros should have a secret lair? What kind of lair would you have?
What is your favorite superhero movie?
Do you like superhero movies?
What about animated superhero movies?
Do you read books about superheros?
Graphic novels? Do you collect them?
Is there anything else about superheroes that I should know about you?
If you could have one superpower which one would you choose?
Would you rather be a superhero or a super-villain?
Is Batman a Superhero or just a wealthy hero with really cool toys?
Do you need a minute to recover from that last question?
What about James Bond, Is he a super hero? Which Bond is your favorite? You have heard of James bond right? Double-oh seven (007)?
Is it wrong to use your superpowers for your own personal gain?
what about for somebody else's personal gain?
Should superheros have secret identities? Should Superheros be supported by the people? or vice versa?
What's the best way to gain superpowers? a meteor? happenstance?
genetics? genetically engineered chromosomes? chemistry accidents?
If you could pick one superpower for a spouse, what would you pick?
Would you be jealous if your spouse had superpowers and you did not? What if you both had superpowers, but theirs were cooler than yours?
What kind of sidekick would you pick?
What kind of superhero outfit would you pick?
And why do superheros always wear spandex?
How do you feel about spandex?
Would you have like to your own theme music?
Do you already have a theme song?
Do you think superheros should have a secret lair? What kind of lair would you have?
What is your favorite superhero movie?
Do you like superhero movies?
What about animated superhero movies?
Do you read books about superheros?
Graphic novels? Do you collect them?
Is there anything else about superheroes that I should know about you?
Questions for Couples: Romance
Do you like Piña Coladas?
And getting caught in the rain?
Do you really like long walks on the beach? or is that just a cheesy line?
Do you like watching the sunset? Do you ever get up in time to see the sunrise?
What's your favorite kind of flower?
Is it more romantic to get/ give flowers (or gifts) often or for them to be a surprise?
Would you rather take a walk on the beach or through the mountains?
How do you feel about waterfalls? What's your favorite kind?
Do you like to sit outside and look at the stars?
Do you know all 88 constellations? Do you know any?
Have you ever stayed up late just to watch a meteor shower?
Are you the kind of person who could stay up late to watch a meteor shower, and never see a single meteor? And still be happy about it?
Would you rather play in the snow or snuggle by a fire?
Do you think of cooking as a romantic gesture? or a responsibility?
What about cleaning? Yardwork?
Is it more important to put effort into romance before marriage or after?
Before kids or after?
Continually?
Questions for Couples: Military Service
Army, Navy, Air Force or Marines?
Do you like war movies?
Do you watch NCIS? Religiously?
Would you ever serve in the Military? Voluntarily?
Would you be willing to serve if you were drafted?
If there was a draft, would you flee? enlist on your own? go into hiding? engage in other drastic measures to avoid serving? other?
If you were to serve in the Military would you prefer to be infantry, Special ops, or other?
How do you feel about the ROTC?
Would you enroll in the military to help pay for college?
As a weekend warrior, to help pay the bills? or because it's fun?
How would you feel about being stationed over seas for a short period of time? for a long period of time? multiple times?
If you were deployed over seas what is the one thing you think you would miss the most about America?
Rootbeer? Peanut Butter? Other?
Do know the theme song for any of the branches of the military? do you know all of them? will you sing them for me? incessantly?
If you were in the military, how would you spend your free time? what would you do to remember your standards and values?
Would you ever consider being a military chaplain?
Would you rather be in the military or in the FBI?
Do you have a lot of family in the military?
Would you expect your children to be part of the military?
If you were enlisted, would you rather live on the base or off the base? would your answer change if you had kids? Would you like your kids to attend military schools?
What is your favorite thing about the military?
Do you like war movies?
Do you watch NCIS? Religiously?
Would you ever serve in the Military? Voluntarily?
Would you be willing to serve if you were drafted?
If there was a draft, would you flee? enlist on your own? go into hiding? engage in other drastic measures to avoid serving? other?
If you were to serve in the Military would you prefer to be infantry, Special ops, or other?
How do you feel about the ROTC?
Would you enroll in the military to help pay for college?
As a weekend warrior, to help pay the bills? or because it's fun?
How would you feel about being stationed over seas for a short period of time? for a long period of time? multiple times?
If you were deployed over seas what is the one thing you think you would miss the most about America?
Rootbeer? Peanut Butter? Other?
Do know the theme song for any of the branches of the military? do you know all of them? will you sing them for me? incessantly?
If you were in the military, how would you spend your free time? what would you do to remember your standards and values?
Would you ever consider being a military chaplain?
Would you rather be in the military or in the FBI?
Do you have a lot of family in the military?
Would you expect your children to be part of the military?
If you were enlisted, would you rather live on the base or off the base? would your answer change if you had kids? Would you like your kids to attend military schools?
What is your favorite thing about the military?
Questions for Couples: Ice Breakers
What was the last movie that you saw in the theater?
Cook or clean?
Strangest thing you've ever eaten?
favorite holiday tradition?
Please rank the following from 1 to 5 Milk, Goats milk, Soy milk, Rice milk, Almond milk
If you could pick one person as a teacher or mentor who would it be and why?
What's your favorite thing to do on Facebook™? How many "friends" do you have?
Three books you would like to read?
Favorite place to go if you just want desert? and what are you doing later?
Do you like to listen to something while you work? what?
Number of Google products you use?
How do you feel about Wolfram Alpha?
What was it you wanted to tell me?
Mac or PC? (might evoke strong emotion)
How old were you when you got your first cell phone? Could you give it up?
What's you're favorite season?
Cook or clean?
Strangest thing you've ever eaten?
favorite holiday tradition?
Please rank the following from 1 to 5 Milk, Goats milk, Soy milk, Rice milk, Almond milk
If you could pick one person as a teacher or mentor who would it be and why?
What's your favorite thing to do on Facebook™? How many "friends" do you have?
Three books you would like to read?
Favorite place to go if you just want desert? and what are you doing later?
Do you like to listen to something while you work? what?
Number of Google products you use?
How do you feel about Wolfram Alpha?
What was it you wanted to tell me?
Mac or PC? (might evoke strong emotion)
How old were you when you got your first cell phone? Could you give it up?
What's you're favorite season?
Questions for Couples: Travel
Do you like to travel?
Do you have travel goals, plans, traditions, or expectations? What are they?
When traveling, do you make your plans based on the destination or the activity? Explain.
Do you like to use a travel agent?
Are you willing to travel to 3rd world countries?What do you consider a 3rd world country?
Do you only like tropical locations?
Are you comfortable traveling to countries where you don't know the language?
Are there some countries that you don't want to visit?
When traveling, do you like to do humanitarian service?
Do you have to stay in 4 star hotels? Have you tried the 'President' in Athens? (I hear it's excellent).
Do you prefer to stay in hostels?
Are you willing to stay in a place with a shared bathroom?
When traveling, do you have to have every minute planned, or are you flexible to relaxation time?
Do you get grumpy if you walk too much? Too little?
Do you like to sleep in on vacation or wake up early?
Do you like to be a part of tour groups, or do you like to find your own way?
Do you like to go to church while traveling?
What do you feel is appropriate for the Sabbath while traveling?
Is that important to you?
Do you pack light, or do you have a lot of luggage?
Do you like to take a lot of pictures? Video?
Do you have a current passport? If so passport card or passport book?
Do you have dual-citizenship? Fake IDs?
Does your country allow you to leave the premises?
Can you get visas to other countries?
Do you only want to travel in your own country?
Are you able to be completely away from business for a week or more? Family? Your phone? Your Laptop? Facebook? How long can you be?
Do you know how to haggle for pricing at marketplaces?
Are you okay with long flights?
How do you feel about taking public transportation in other countries?
Do you have to fly first class?
How frequently do you like to travel?
How much time can you get off for vacations?
How long do you like your vacations to be?
Do you believe in doing staycations?
Do you have travel goals, plans, traditions, or expectations? What are they?
When traveling, do you make your plans based on the destination or the activity? Explain.
Do you like to use a travel agent?
Are you willing to travel to 3rd world countries?What do you consider a 3rd world country?
Do you only like tropical locations?
Are you comfortable traveling to countries where you don't know the language?
Are there some countries that you don't want to visit?
When traveling, do you like to do humanitarian service?
Do you have to stay in 4 star hotels? Have you tried the 'President' in Athens? (I hear it's excellent).
Do you prefer to stay in hostels?
Are you willing to stay in a place with a shared bathroom?
When traveling, do you have to have every minute planned, or are you flexible to relaxation time?
Do you get grumpy if you walk too much? Too little?
Do you like to sleep in on vacation or wake up early?
Do you like to be a part of tour groups, or do you like to find your own way?
Do you like to go to church while traveling?
What do you feel is appropriate for the Sabbath while traveling?
Is that important to you?
Do you pack light, or do you have a lot of luggage?
Do you like to take a lot of pictures? Video?
Do you have a current passport? If so passport card or passport book?
Do you have dual-citizenship? Fake IDs?
Does your country allow you to leave the premises?
Can you get visas to other countries?
Do you only want to travel in your own country?
Are you able to be completely away from business for a week or more? Family? Your phone? Your Laptop? Facebook? How long can you be?
Do you know how to haggle for pricing at marketplaces?
Are you okay with long flights?
How do you feel about taking public transportation in other countries?
Do you have to fly first class?
How frequently do you like to travel?
How much time can you get off for vacations?
How long do you like your vacations to be?
Do you believe in doing staycations?
Questions for Couples: Entertainment I
Do you watch a lot of movies? and how much is a lot?
What was the last movie that you saw?
Have you ever walked out of a movie?
What was the last movie you left? why?
How do you pick the movies that you see?
Do you have a favorite critic?
Do you use a website to help you decide to see a movie? Rotten Tomatoes? Screenit? kids-in-mind? other?
What's the most important factor for you when choosing whether or not to see a movie? The story? The Dialogue? The Camerawork? Special Effects? Reviews? Content? Rating? Actors/ Actresses? Other?
Which of these factors influence your decision the most?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains substantial alcohol or drug use?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if the good guy smokes? what about the bad guy? what if lot of people are smoking?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains a lot of blood and gore?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains disrespectful or bad attitudes?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains frightening scenes?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains a lot of guns and weapons? what about fictional weapons? laser cats?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains bad behavior that could be imitated?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains scenes that make you jump?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains scary or tense music?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains inappropriate music?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains profanity?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains blasphemy?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains sex or nudity?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains tense family scenes?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains topics to talk about?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains violence?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains gambling?
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What was the last movie that you saw?
Have you ever walked out of a movie?
What was the last movie you left? why?
How do you pick the movies that you see?
Do you have a favorite critic?
Do you use a website to help you decide to see a movie? Rotten Tomatoes? Screenit? kids-in-mind? other?
What's the most important factor for you when choosing whether or not to see a movie? The story? The Dialogue? The Camerawork? Special Effects? Reviews? Content? Rating? Actors/ Actresses? Other?
Which of these factors influence your decision the most?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains substantial alcohol or drug use?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if the good guy smokes? what about the bad guy? what if lot of people are smoking?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains a lot of blood and gore?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains disrespectful or bad attitudes?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains frightening scenes?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains a lot of guns and weapons? what about fictional weapons? laser cats?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains bad behavior that could be imitated?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains scenes that make you jump?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains scary or tense music?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains inappropriate music?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains profanity?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains blasphemy?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains sex or nudity?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains tense family scenes?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains topics to talk about?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains violence?
Are you more likely to see or avoid a movie if it contains gambling?
Topics from Screenit.com
Questions for Couples: Money Number II
Because Money matters are such important issues relationships, and there are so many of them we have decided to post a second entry that deals with money. Most likely there will be more money questions to come.
Do you use a budget? How closely do you follow it?
How do you feel about car insurance? Are you insured?
Do you prefer a high deductible or a low deductible?
Do you get the minimum coverage, the maximum coverage, or something in the middle.
Do you have or would you buy homeowners insurance? Renters insurance?
How do you feel about life insurance?
Do you prefer Whole-life or term-life? Do you actually know what the differences are?
How do you feel about HSA's(Health Savings Accounts)? Do you have one?
Do you prefer HSA's or Health insurance?
Are you saving for retirement?
Do you manage your retirement monies or does someone else?
Does your company have a pension plan?
Do you have an IRA?
Do you prefer Roth IRA's or traditional IRA's?
What do you think is the best method to save for retirement?
a)I'm not concerned about that yet
b)I like IRA's
c)I like savings bonds
d)Mutual funds
e)T-notes
f)Money Market
g)In a checking account
h)I keep it under the mattress... I mean it's not under the mattress, but that seems the safest. Ü
i)GOLD Bullion
j)I think the stock market is best (if yes, choose one of the following)
l)I like a combination of some of these options
m)I'm planning to win the lottery (I have a system Ü)
n)Other
How do you feel about playing the lottery?
Do you gamble? Are you addicted?
Do you play the slots? if yes do you prefer the cheap ones, or the bigger slots
Do you play poker? Which kind do you prefer?
How do you feel about blackjack?
Roulette? Keno? Craps?
Is bingo Gambling?
What if it's free?
Would you stay at a casino for a business trip? for a family vacation?
Is it gambling if the casino gives you a free credit, some chips, or some money to play with?
If you gamble how much would you spend at one time? On the same trip?
In a year?
Do you bet on sports?
Do you bet on horses?
How do you feel about friendly wagers?
What about potentially embarrassing wagers or deals?
Would you tell your spouse about the money you won through one of these methods?
What about the money you lost? Would the amount make a difference?
Do you use a budget? How closely do you follow it?
How do you feel about car insurance? Are you insured?
Do you prefer a high deductible or a low deductible?
Do you get the minimum coverage, the maximum coverage, or something in the middle.
Do you have or would you buy homeowners insurance? Renters insurance?
How do you feel about life insurance?
Do you prefer Whole-life or term-life? Do you actually know what the differences are?
How do you feel about HSA's(Health Savings Accounts)? Do you have one?
Do you prefer HSA's or Health insurance?
Are you saving for retirement?
Do you manage your retirement monies or does someone else?
Does your company have a pension plan?
Do you have an IRA?
Do you prefer Roth IRA's or traditional IRA's?
What do you think is the best method to save for retirement?
a)I'm not concerned about that yet
b)I like IRA's
c)I like savings bonds
d)Mutual funds
e)T-notes
f)Money Market
g)In a checking account
h)I keep it under the mattress... I mean it's not under the mattress, but that seems the safest. Ü
i)GOLD Bullion
j)I think the stock market is best (if yes, choose one of the following)
- As long as you buy the Blue chips
- I think penny stocks offer the best returns
- You won't make the big gains, if you don't take the big risks
- I like a diverse portfolio
- Other
l)I like a combination of some of these options
m)I'm planning to win the lottery (I have a system Ü)
n)Other
How do you feel about playing the lottery?
Do you gamble? Are you addicted?
Do you play the slots? if yes do you prefer the cheap ones, or the bigger slots
Do you play poker? Which kind do you prefer?
How do you feel about blackjack?
Roulette? Keno? Craps?
Is bingo Gambling?
What if it's free?
Would you stay at a casino for a business trip? for a family vacation?
Is it gambling if the casino gives you a free credit, some chips, or some money to play with?
If you gamble how much would you spend at one time? On the same trip?
In a year?
Do you bet on sports?
Do you bet on horses?
How do you feel about friendly wagers?
What about potentially embarrassing wagers or deals?
Would you tell your spouse about the money you won through one of these methods?
What about the money you lost? Would the amount make a difference?
Questions for Couples: Physical Appearance
How do you feel about tattoos?
Do you have any tattoos? If yes how many?
Do you like tattoos that people can see? that are covered?
Do you want to get any tattoos?
What kind of tattoos do you like most?
If you got a tattoo, where would you put?
What would be your reason for getting or not getting a tattoo?
How do you feel about Henna Tattoos? Are they the same as permanent tattoos or different? Why?
What about tattoos from a candy wrapper? Costume tattoos?
Would you consider 'permanent make-up' that could be tattooed on a good solution? Would you have it done to you?
Do you have any piercings? Ears? Face? Other?
How do you feel about piercings on Guys? How many should a guy have?
How do you feel about piercings on Girls? How many should a girl have?
How do you feel about non-traditional piercings like the top of the ear, nose, cheek?
How do you feel about cultural piercings?
Would you want your children to have any piercings?
Would you pierce your daughters ears when they are born?
How old do you think a person should be when they get a piercing?
Is a piercing a parents decision or the child's decision?
How do you feel about clip-on earrings?
Do you dye your hair?
Would you dye your hair? to another natural color? to an unnatural color?
Would you put natural looking accents in your hair? Blue accents? Green? other?
How often would you change your hair color? Dye your hair?
Do you have any tattoos? If yes how many?
Do you like tattoos that people can see? that are covered?
Do you want to get any tattoos?
What kind of tattoos do you like most?
If you got a tattoo, where would you put?
What would be your reason for getting or not getting a tattoo?
How do you feel about Henna Tattoos? Are they the same as permanent tattoos or different? Why?
What about tattoos from a candy wrapper? Costume tattoos?
Would you consider 'permanent make-up' that could be tattooed on a good solution? Would you have it done to you?
Do you have any piercings? Ears? Face? Other?
How do you feel about piercings on Guys? How many should a guy have?
How do you feel about piercings on Girls? How many should a girl have?
How do you feel about non-traditional piercings like the top of the ear, nose, cheek?
How do you feel about cultural piercings?
Would you want your children to have any piercings?
Would you pierce your daughters ears when they are born?
How old do you think a person should be when they get a piercing?
Is a piercing a parents decision or the child's decision?
How do you feel about clip-on earrings?
Do you dye your hair?
Would you dye your hair? to another natural color? to an unnatural color?
Would you put natural looking accents in your hair? Blue accents? Green? other?
How often would you change your hair color? Dye your hair?
Questions for Couples: Chores
How do you feel about chores?
How often do you think a house should be cleaned?
Do you prefer to do the cleaning? or would you hire someone to do it?
Would you ever hire a maid?
How clean/ dirty would you want your house when the maid arrived?
How often would you have a maid come by?
How clean do you like your house?
Are there parts that you expect to be more clean?
Do you make your bed every morning? Do you expect someone else to make the bed?
How do you feel about dishes?
Do you prefer to wash by hand or use a dishwasher?
Are washing and drying one job or two?
Do you prefer to wash or dry?
Who takes out the trash?
How do you feel about yard work?
Would you hire a yard care service?
What about a neighborhood child?
Do you enjoy weeding?
Do you enjoy a garden?
Do you care how your yard looks?
Do you prefer a yard that is mostly grass? Xeriscaped? Well ornamented?
Would you hire a landscaper?
Would you winterize your house yourself?
Who should rake up leaves?
Who shovels the snow?
Would you pay someone to shovel the walks?
When should the snow be shoveled? Why on earth would anyone want to live where it snows?
Snowblower or Shovel?
Do you shovel a pathwway or do you shovel the whole thing?
Do you help your neighbors clear their snow after you have finished with the snow on your property? Do you help them first? Do you know your neighbors?
Would you take your neighbors cookies? Bread?
How do you feel about borrowing food from the neighbors?
Who should do the cooking?
Can you cook?
Who prepares breakfast? is it cooked? What about dinner?
Is the person who cooks responsible for the clean-up? or is it the other persons job?
Do you prefer to have a job-chart? or do you prefer to just work on things that need to be done?
Do you use a to-do list? do you ever finish it?
Who does the laundry? How often? Is the laundry one job? two jobs? three jobs? or more?
How often do you think a house should be cleaned?
Do you prefer to do the cleaning? or would you hire someone to do it?
Would you ever hire a maid?
How clean/ dirty would you want your house when the maid arrived?
How often would you have a maid come by?
How clean do you like your house?
Are there parts that you expect to be more clean?
Do you make your bed every morning? Do you expect someone else to make the bed?
How do you feel about dishes?
Do you prefer to wash by hand or use a dishwasher?
Are washing and drying one job or two?
Do you prefer to wash or dry?
Who takes out the trash?
How do you feel about yard work?
Would you hire a yard care service?
What about a neighborhood child?
Do you enjoy weeding?
Do you enjoy a garden?
Do you care how your yard looks?
Do you prefer a yard that is mostly grass? Xeriscaped? Well ornamented?
Would you hire a landscaper?
Would you winterize your house yourself?
Who should rake up leaves?
Who shovels the snow?
Would you pay someone to shovel the walks?
When should the snow be shoveled? Why on earth would anyone want to live where it snows?
Snowblower or Shovel?
Do you shovel a pathwway or do you shovel the whole thing?
Do you help your neighbors clear their snow after you have finished with the snow on your property? Do you help them first? Do you know your neighbors?
Would you take your neighbors cookies? Bread?
How do you feel about borrowing food from the neighbors?
Who should do the cooking?
Can you cook?
Who prepares breakfast? is it cooked? What about dinner?
Is the person who cooks responsible for the clean-up? or is it the other persons job?
Do you prefer to have a job-chart? or do you prefer to just work on things that need to be done?
Do you use a to-do list? do you ever finish it?
Who does the laundry? How often? Is the laundry one job? two jobs? three jobs? or more?
Questions for Couples: Sports
How much would you spend to go to a sporting event?
How much would you spend once you got there?
Would you ever buy Season Tickets? For what sports? How often would you use them?
What type of seat would you get?
Do you have a Gym membership? Do you use it? How do you feel about Gyms?
Do you have a Wii? is that really exercise? Do you use it?
Do you prefer Dance Dance Revolution or Pump It Up Exceed? Square Dancing? Dance Clubs? Country Dancing? NO DANCING?
Do you have any injuries that keep you from being as active/ healthy as you would like?
What do you do about them?
Are you into extreme sports? to watch or to participate? Which ones do you like?
Is anything too extreme for you?
DO you consider Shuffleboard extreme?
How often do you exercise?
Do you plan on staying fit after you get married?
Are you obsessed with any sporting activities? To watch or to participate? which ones?
If your significant other was interested in Playing sports, would you play with them? would you watch?
Is there a sport that you like that you want me to watch you play or play with you?
What sports would you play? Volleyball? Soccer? Basketball? Softball? Tennis? Football? Other?
What are your hobbies/recreation preferences and limits?
What are your feelings about hunting/fishing and your/my participation in them?
Do you root for the home team? Whoever is winning? the underdog?
How many teams do you have?
How do you feel about College sports?
Would you attend? would you watch them on tv?
What about championships?
How do you feel about Pro sports?
High School Sports?
City league?
Little league or Pee Wee's?
Would you ever be a coach or referee? Do you expect your kids to participate in this type of activity? If so which sports?
How do you feel about curling?
What about Golf?
Shuffleboard?
How much would you spend once you got there?
Would you ever buy Season Tickets? For what sports? How often would you use them?
What type of seat would you get?
Do you have a Gym membership? Do you use it? How do you feel about Gyms?
Do you have a Wii? is that really exercise? Do you use it?
Do you prefer Dance Dance Revolution or Pump It Up Exceed? Square Dancing? Dance Clubs? Country Dancing? NO DANCING?
Do you have any injuries that keep you from being as active/ healthy as you would like?
What do you do about them?
Are you into extreme sports? to watch or to participate? Which ones do you like?
Is anything too extreme for you?
DO you consider Shuffleboard extreme?
How often do you exercise?
Do you plan on staying fit after you get married?
Are you obsessed with any sporting activities? To watch or to participate? which ones?
If your significant other was interested in Playing sports, would you play with them? would you watch?
Is there a sport that you like that you want me to watch you play or play with you?
What sports would you play? Volleyball? Soccer? Basketball? Softball? Tennis? Football? Other?
What are your hobbies/recreation preferences and limits?
What are your feelings about hunting/fishing and your/my participation in them?
Do you root for the home team? Whoever is winning? the underdog?
How many teams do you have?
How do you feel about College sports?
Would you attend? would you watch them on tv?
What about championships?
How do you feel about Pro sports?
High School Sports?
City league?
Little league or Pee Wee's?
Would you ever be a coach or referee? Do you expect your kids to participate in this type of activity? If so which sports?
How do you feel about curling?
What about Golf?
Shuffleboard?
Questions for Couples: Ice Breakers
Waterfalls or Water-skis?
Movie Stars or Starry Nights?
Porch swings or Golf swings?
Fig Newton or Newtonian Physics?
Computer screens or Sunscreen?
Movie Stars or Starry Nights?
Porch swings or Golf swings?
Fig Newton or Newtonian Physics?
Computer screens or Sunscreen?
Questions for Couples: Animals
Today's topic: Animals.
Do you like animals?
Are you afraid of any? Spiders? Snakes? Dogs? Mongoose?
Do you have any pets?
Do you have strong feelings towards cats? Dogs? Rodents?
Would you ever own a snake?
How about a pet insect?
Would you have a mouse as a pet? how about a rat? fish? gerbils? birds?
Would you prefer papered animals that you could sell?
How do you feel about animals from shelters?
How do you feel about horses? Cows?
Would you live on a farm?
Are you Vegetarian?
Are you Vegan?
Are you Pescatarian?
Are you some other variation of an ism that deals with what you will and will not eat?
Do you know what any of these thing really are?
Do you actually like tofu?
What are your feelings on Milk?
Do you prefer whole milk or skim milk?
Do you prefer goat's milk or cow's milk?
What are your feelings about Rice Milk? Soy Milk? Almond Milk?
What about powdered milk? and Evaporated Milk
Would you raise chickens for the eggs?
Could you eat those chickens?
Would you own your own goats (for the milk)?
Would you eat them?
Are you in favor of or against eating fish?
Are you in favor of or against eating Beef?
Are you in favor of or against eating Ham?
Are you in favor of or against eating Bacon?
Are you in favor of or against other pork products?
Are you in favor of or against eating Turkey?
Are you in favor of or against eating game birds?
Are you in favor of or against eating Large game (like deer or elk)?
Are you in favor of or against lamb/ Mutton etc.?
Are you a hunter?
How do you feel about hunting?
What if you spouse wants to?
What if you need food?
What if you spouse likes hunting shows?
How do you feel about fishing?
How do you feel about seafood?
Raw seafood?
Caviar? Escargot?
Would you kill an insect if it bugged you?
Would you kill larger animals if they bugged you?
What if an insect stung/ bit you would you kill it?
Would you use what you kill?
How much of it would you use?
Do you like animals?
Are you afraid of any? Spiders? Snakes? Dogs? Mongoose?
Do you have any pets?
Do you have strong feelings towards cats? Dogs? Rodents?
Would you ever own a snake?
How about a pet insect?
Would you have a mouse as a pet? how about a rat? fish? gerbils? birds?
Would you prefer papered animals that you could sell?
How do you feel about animals from shelters?
How do you feel about horses? Cows?
Would you live on a farm?
Are you Vegetarian?
Are you Vegan?
Are you Pescatarian?
Are you some other variation of an ism that deals with what you will and will not eat?
Do you know what any of these thing really are?
Do you actually like tofu?
What are your feelings on Milk?
Do you prefer whole milk or skim milk?
Do you prefer goat's milk or cow's milk?
What are your feelings about Rice Milk? Soy Milk? Almond Milk?
What about powdered milk? and Evaporated Milk
Would you raise chickens for the eggs?
Could you eat those chickens?
Would you own your own goats (for the milk)?
Would you eat them?
Are you in favor of or against eating fish?
Are you in favor of or against eating Beef?
Are you in favor of or against eating Ham?
Are you in favor of or against eating Bacon?
Are you in favor of or against other pork products?
Are you in favor of or against eating Turkey?
Are you in favor of or against eating game birds?
Are you in favor of or against eating Large game (like deer or elk)?
Are you in favor of or against lamb/ Mutton etc.?
Are you a hunter?
How do you feel about hunting?
What if you spouse wants to?
What if you need food?
What if you spouse likes hunting shows?
How do you feel about fishing?
How do you feel about seafood?
Raw seafood?
Caviar? Escargot?
Would you kill an insect if it bugged you?
Would you kill larger animals if they bugged you?
What if an insect stung/ bit you would you kill it?
Would you use what you kill?
How much of it would you use?
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